Well, that last entry got the most comments I've ever had. 
Basicly, I've been talking to this lovely girl who's a friend of a friend. She puts on this air of worldliness and decadence, builds her "rep" as an independent and sexual person ..... and won't actually come to my house without a chaperone.
We are *not* going to force or manipulate anyone into bed. I'm not cheating on my Lady, nor does she keep secrets from me. If you don't intend on doing something, don't imply that you will, just say "No, thanks" and go on from there.
It wouldn't be so annoying if it hadn't happened before. At least four others I can think of in the last two years. It's as if they love the *thought* of being hedonistic with us, but can't get past their inner chicken.
And no, it doesn't seem to be me or us. I've talked to other friends about it (and these people know us IRL). We can be a bit over-whelming at times they say, but they don't understand it either.
Anyone else want to share their attempts at decadence?
Basicly, I've been talking to this lovely girl who's a friend of a friend. She puts on this air of worldliness and decadence, builds her "rep" as an independent and sexual person ..... and won't actually come to my house without a chaperone.
We are *not* going to force or manipulate anyone into bed. I'm not cheating on my Lady, nor does she keep secrets from me. If you don't intend on doing something, don't imply that you will, just say "No, thanks" and go on from there.
It wouldn't be so annoying if it hadn't happened before. At least four others I can think of in the last two years. It's as if they love the *thought* of being hedonistic with us, but can't get past their inner chicken.
And no, it doesn't seem to be me or us. I've talked to other friends about it (and these people know us IRL). We can be a bit over-whelming at times they say, but they don't understand it either.
Anyone else want to share their attempts at decadence?
bombshellbetty:
"Decadence"??? Is that a euphemism for sex or threesomes? Ha! Either way, I haven't been "decadent" in a while. And it's not because I'm chicken. My style is gonna be really cramped until I can afford to move out of my ex's. Should only be a few more weeks...