ok...I need some girl advice. please feel free to give your 2 cents.
Ive been dating the same grl for 8 months now. i totally love her and do want to marry her. things have been hard lately with the long distance thing. shes in CA and im here in AZ. but, she has found a job out here and is planning on moving. so thats that!
I took a trip with my friends to NYC last June.
Earlier tonight my GF and i were talking about how much fun i had in NYC and how id like to go back in a few years. she then says "your not allowed to go to NY", then expressed to me how im not allowed to take trips with any of my friends. I instantlly became mad, but held it in. i clearly explained to her, nicely, that i WILL be taking trips in the future with my friends and that is nothing she needs to worrry about. its part of being in a relationship and i would be happy if her and her girlfriends were to go off on a trip.
she then completly loses it. tells me theres no way we can be togather if im planning on takin any trips that dont include her. yells @ me and then hangs up.
am I wrong here?
is there something bad about wanting to hang out with my friends?
any advice? men and women, please tell what you think
thank you...Ethan
ps...does anyone know anything about Residentail wiring? i need some serious help with school
Ive been dating the same grl for 8 months now. i totally love her and do want to marry her. things have been hard lately with the long distance thing. shes in CA and im here in AZ. but, she has found a job out here and is planning on moving. so thats that!
I took a trip with my friends to NYC last June.
Earlier tonight my GF and i were talking about how much fun i had in NYC and how id like to go back in a few years. she then says "your not allowed to go to NY", then expressed to me how im not allowed to take trips with any of my friends. I instantlly became mad, but held it in. i clearly explained to her, nicely, that i WILL be taking trips in the future with my friends and that is nothing she needs to worrry about. its part of being in a relationship and i would be happy if her and her girlfriends were to go off on a trip.
she then completly loses it. tells me theres no way we can be togather if im planning on takin any trips that dont include her. yells @ me and then hangs up.
am I wrong here?
is there something bad about wanting to hang out with my friends?
any advice? men and women, please tell what you think
thank you...Ethan
ps...does anyone know anything about Residentail wiring? i need some serious help with school
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People need to take breaks, to have fun separately with their friends its just another stage of lasting relationships. People get tired of one another, everyone knows that.
How are you suposed to miss and want to be with someone you see every second of every day, theres no mystery!
It sounds like more of a trust issue with her, she doesn't trust you enough yet and thats never a good sign.
You seem very good at communicating though so I'm sure you'll work it out.
Ha ha, i had to edit my comment because i,ve been married 18 years,not 15........What do i know anyway
[Edited on Feb 05, 2005 7:05AM]