Ok , this is going to sound a bit odd, but Ive got a nice glass of red beside me and I think it needs to be said..
Why are so many people who are so much younger than me on this website, so old-fashioned in thier views?
???huh? you ask...
Well, heres a small example. There was a thread about sugar daddies a while back (of which Ive had a few) and I noticed that when I mentioned the thought that a man may give $ and gifts to a girl without having sex with her in exchange for companionship, several guys said that man was a 'sucker'..whaaaatt?? Like those gifts gives him some sort of 'entitlement".... and women said that a woman who has a sugar daddy (of whatever kind) is basically a prostitute and the man is a trick. This is sweeping categorization that Id expect from my PARENTS' generation (who were older and had a 50's mentality) and certainly not from the self-proclaimed 'radical' people here. I was quite surprised. There have been lots of other examples as well. WTF? Ancient Greece was more progressive for fucks sakes!
What is it with the ongoing negative puritanical attitude towards 'working women' or ones willing to trade a bit of physical pleasure to gain thier ends? Is it not a fair trade if its consenting and maturely handled? Do we not 'prostitute' ourselves whenever we take a job we dont like, take orders from someone who isnt better than us, do things we must do in order to live? I'd have a helluva lot easier time having sex with someone to be able to do what I want, than living with an 'acceptable' workplace that stifles and kills my spirit .
What is with the narrow, judgemental BS I see from people 15 years younger than me?
Heh.. maybe I am a true radical after all..whaddya know..
Im not going to ask questions today.. random thoughts and reflections are fine...
Why are so many people who are so much younger than me on this website, so old-fashioned in thier views?
???huh? you ask...
Well, heres a small example. There was a thread about sugar daddies a while back (of which Ive had a few) and I noticed that when I mentioned the thought that a man may give $ and gifts to a girl without having sex with her in exchange for companionship, several guys said that man was a 'sucker'..whaaaatt?? Like those gifts gives him some sort of 'entitlement".... and women said that a woman who has a sugar daddy (of whatever kind) is basically a prostitute and the man is a trick. This is sweeping categorization that Id expect from my PARENTS' generation (who were older and had a 50's mentality) and certainly not from the self-proclaimed 'radical' people here. I was quite surprised. There have been lots of other examples as well. WTF? Ancient Greece was more progressive for fucks sakes!
What is it with the ongoing negative puritanical attitude towards 'working women' or ones willing to trade a bit of physical pleasure to gain thier ends? Is it not a fair trade if its consenting and maturely handled? Do we not 'prostitute' ourselves whenever we take a job we dont like, take orders from someone who isnt better than us, do things we must do in order to live? I'd have a helluva lot easier time having sex with someone to be able to do what I want, than living with an 'acceptable' workplace that stifles and kills my spirit .
What is with the narrow, judgemental BS I see from people 15 years younger than me?
Heh.. maybe I am a true radical after all..whaddya know..
Im not going to ask questions today.. random thoughts and reflections are fine...
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And thank you
Sex is what it is. If the kids on here don't get that then who does?
As long as you're happy and well adjusted, I say go for it. It's not a problem unless it hurts people. Anybody who wants to sit and pass judgement needs to carefully examine they house that he or she has built for himself before they start lobbing stones around in the dark...