YYesterday i get a call from my ex girlfriend, who has been calling me for a few months. she now lives in Colorado with a guy who was an ex of hers. When she would call me she would tell me of all the bad stuff that they would go through. She would tell me of hi bad temper, that hes verbally puts her down and that hes even been pushing and hitting her. I told her that when the time came that he wanted to leave i would be there to help her come back. She calls me yesterday saying that shes had enough and in tears. So ask her if she wants me to go get her and help her come back to cali. So i make plans to fly out. And as im getting closer to the airport she calls me. She starts telling me that shes confused and is not sure if she wants to come back. She also tells me that shes scared of what he might do if he found out about her leaving and of me flying out. I kept trying to comfort her as best i could. But in the end she told me to turn back and that shes going to stay in Colorado and stay with him. So i told her that if thats what shes going to do then i dont want her calling me anymore. she doesnt have many friends who she can count on. And now that ive told her not to call me im not sure who she will have to confide in and trust to talk to. but in the end i have to do whats best for me too. I do hope that she will figure her life out and open her eyes and decide to leave. In the end i wish her the best and that she finds happiness.
kacigoff:
thats rough. being in a relationships thats abusive isnt the easiest to leave for alot of people. but you do have to look out for yourself. i hope she gets out of it as soon as possible and comes home and surrounds herself with positivity and finds people like you that she can count on.
hectorian:
@kacigoff i hope the same for her. She needs positive people in her life. I hope she realizes it soon