Sometimes I let things slide with a smile and sometimes I lose my shit. It’s no problem but thing is, I don’t know when which is appropriate in the status quo. You know?
Like, someone has hurt my feelings (believe it or not I’m not a robot), so my mind goes: “right then! Bobo crush their skulls!” Or, “that’s ok because this or that”. Hmm maybe I need to find the middle between poles; assertive but rational.
It’s a work in progress, I never really learned to be assertive, but it ain’t too late. Just don’t want smarter people picking on me anymore
crickle:
Those people are assholes. They are not better than you they are worse. Cut them out of your life.
heatherisaboynow:
@crickle I’m just trying to work things out you know? I figure it’s a balancing act. I’m trying to heal my relationships and heal my mind. Thanks for being supportive in your way tho, I really do appreciate that. Stay beautiful <3