harlow

This is from one of my other blogs:

I am still around...

I just read this book:

Men Against Women: The Psychology of Men, Female Empowerment, and the Three Forms of Knowledge
by Edwin Castelo

and found it extremely eye opening to how men think.

The jist of it is, that men want all the pleasure and believe that Women are assets to their pleasure the same as beer and sports. (IN GENERAL) I am of course relaying the message of the book and the author was speaking in general. It goes on to say that because men are more physical than emotional or intelligent, they have managed to make a bigger mark on the world and if you are loud enough and repeat something enough (such as in advertising) people start to believe you and this is why patriarchy's ideas have brainwashed everyone. And this is why Women have been objectified. Anyway, this is just the JIST of the book. Read it, I read it in an hour. Its very short and very precise and very enlightening.

Its why so many Dommes get mad at all the fake slaves out there who are pretending to be what the Domme wants, to get what they want because they STILL think that Women, in whatever guise, are on this planet to entertain and please THEM. Which is wholey untrue. These men are living in the dark ages and have not realised what they are missing out on. That pleasing a Women is the ultimate action they can perform. That REAL MEN please Women. REAL MEN put a Woman's pleasure before their own and its NOT selling out, its not "turning your back on your brothers", its not becoming "pussy whipped". Those men who put Women before themselves are PRINCES, they are KNIGHTS, and you know what guys? Those guys have it SO MUCH BETTER than your mucho little brain could ever fathom.

I will tell you why. Women, enlightened Women, Women who know their worth dont EVER GIVE IT AWAY FOR NOTHING. And Men, real men, men who know a Woman's worth, DONT WANT IT FOR FREE. The catch is so much sweeter when you had to work for it. And if you cannot appreciate that, you will continue to be unsatisfied. Ironic isnt it? That you go around looking for satisfaction but increasingly are finding it impossible to ever be truly satisfied for any length of time. Thats because more and more Women today know their worth and will not give you what you want without you proving that you deserve it.

If you want something from a Women, from a good Woman, learn to show Her why She should give it to you.

The world doesnt revolve around you anymore little boy. You cannot have what you want, when you want it. Women were not created for your entertainment. Women want the same thing you do, an enjoyable life, the only difference is that the triggers differ between men and Women. Men want sex, Women want money and if you havent figured that one out yet, then youd better wise up.

Of course, Women like sex too, in fact we LOVE it, and we are just as dirty as you are. Unfortunately, due to patriarchy, a Womans sexuality has been kept under wraps. Im speaking in terms of what Women want. But as we go forward into the future, more and more Women are speaking freely about what they want and how they like it.

Women's sexuality in terms of them being sexy has also been messed up. Women have been taught that we are dirty and that we are wrong for being sexy and that we are only aloud to be sexy for a man's pleasure. er, FUCK THAT SHIT MAN!

I want what I want, just the same as men do, and I will fucking have it, just the way men do.

Open your minds girls and then open your mouths and start demanding what you want. Dont act like men, act like WOMEN. Be FEMININE. Dont be Macho and Masculine. The world has not known the Female for thousands of years. And for a lot of us girls, we dont even know how to be if it isnt defined by a man's idea. DEFINE YOURSELF and then BE IT. LIVE IT.

GO AND GET WHAT YOU WANT. Show men that we live here too.

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Now I dont know if you want to call me a Feminist or whatever. Personally, I dont want to brand myself with anything. Recently I posted on a Feminist board and got slapped in the face with a long list of rules and regulations and so I left the community. Just because I have stepped out of the reign of patriarchy, doesnt mean I need to step into another controlling mind set. I dont care if its Feminism. NO ONE CONTROLS ME. NO ONE tells me what to do, what to say or how to behave.