hannelore

No. I'd have to be some kind of moron to cheat on my wife.

But it can depend on the opportunity. If, for instance, your tired, and emotionally close to a woman, it's late, you're alone together, and out of the blue she starts touching your cock through your pants or grinding against you, it'd be really damn difficult to put a stop to where things are going, and I doubt there are many who could. Worse still if, in addition to all that, you're "going through a rough spot".

So, maybe there's "the right circumstance" for every man that could result in cheating, I don't know. But part of guarding against that sort of shit is guarding against those opportunities, too. If, for example, I found myself alone late at night with a woman I liked in some way, well, damn, I'm probably not where I should be in the first place.

My wife and I have talked extensively about this sort of thing, though, and we're both agreed: cheating would be an issue, but one we'd get over; much worse is all the lying and deception that tends to go with it.

The best relationships are the ones that are 100% honest (but loving honesty, not like the "brutal honesty" from Jerry McGuire). Not everyone can handle that - Sara and I tell each other about our crushes, and sexual impulses, and some people are just way too fucking jealous for that shit. But we both know we're safe with each other, and that impulses and urges are just that. But it's actually a big part of why we feel safe with each other - because we know nobody's lying or playing games.

any person CAN cheat. there's no magic force stopping anyone except themselves.