hannelore

Most true intimacy comes from the mind first, then the body. With that being said and seeing some of what you've written there is no frelling way you are a "lousy lay". All relationships take work and a lot of factors can affect them. I think distance is definitely one of them. There are a limitless number of possibilities on why things feel different now. Is he depressed he had to leave you and doesn't know how to process it? Does he think things are going to last, waiting for the next visit? Could he think you weren't as satisfied with meeting him as you'd hoped? Without his answers it's all guesswork. So, if need be, lay it out for him. Tell him how you're feeling, how his leaving has affected you, how his reactions are affectiing you.

Good luck, I hope if not the answers you want you get some kind of answers. You deserve to be happy. @};-

WHew...no your great in-bed

it's him, he got what he wanted while in america, did he fly here just to visit you? or was there another reason?
not to be hurtful but he is in australia and now looking for a girl at home, if he doesn't already have one! reads like the sex was great good luck, you do deserve to be happy and there is a guy out there that will appreciate having you near