Wednesday Jan 16, 2013

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How do I know if I'm bad in bed? Like seriously. Part of me thinks that maybe I might be a terrible lay. And I just don't know. Why do I give a shit what an Australian who's 8000 miles away thinks? Why do I want him to like me? Why am I afraid that he came here, and was expecting something, and I couldn't give it to him, and he's disappointed and now he doesn't know how to tell me? What the fuck am I supposed to do? Everything had changed. He went home and now he seems different as if I did something to change how he feels?
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lord_renob:
Most true intimacy comes from the mind first, then the body. With that being said and seeing some of what you've written there is no frelling way you are a "lousy lay". All relationships take work and a lot of factors can affect them. I think distance is definitely one of them. There are a limitless number of possibilities on why things feel different now. Is he depressed he had to leave you and doesn't know how to process it? Does he think things are going to last, waiting for the next visit? Could he think you weren't as satisfied with meeting him as you'd hoped? Without his answers it's all guesswork. So, if need be, lay it out for him. Tell him how you're feeling, how his leaving has affected you, how his reactions are affectiing you.

Good luck, I hope if not the answers you want you get some kind of answers. You deserve to be happy. @};-
steeldog:
WHew...no your great in-bedkiss

it's him, he got what he wanted while in america, did he fly here just to visit you? or was there another reason?
not to be hurtful but he is in australia and now looking for a girl at home, if he doesn't already have one! reads like the sex was greatsurreal good luck, you do deserve to be happy and there is a guy out there that will appreciate having you nearkiss

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