People say it is a community and great. Everyone is friendly and nice. You can make friends and the site is SO MUCH MORE than just a nudie site. Yet so far, no friends, no responses to messages and unless you agree 100% that this site "Isn't about the photos" you are just belittled and ridiculed. Outside of my love of photography and nudity I really am losing interest in the "so much more" aspects of this site.
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hallenbeck3:
I wasn't looking to get anything out of it. I was paying to support the people that provided work I got for free. Also I call bullshit because after six months all I have found is insults, harsh language and no response to positive comments. The few that have responded positively back were for the most part perfunctorily "thank you"s. On top of that everyone that posts just assumes the worse or outright states my post must mean the worse. I don't want to be part of a community like that. It is fine, I have dropped the groups I have joined and will exclude myself from future threads. Would hate to ruin the site with my unique personality.
miro:
Snide comments like that are probably why people find you difficult. That and openly dissmissing members' opinions because they are female and pink. That's just sexist and ignorant. You don't know what our experiences on this site are, and to dissmiss it because you think we have an easy time because our membership is free is so offensive. I've been here for six years and in that time I've had countless messages that are sexist and degrading, I've also had members (both male and female) and fellow SGs be incredibly rude and attack me personally. But so have I at times. It's only been on the last year or so that I've found my "place", but I don't expect to get along with everyone, just like in life. Like I said it's insulting to just dissmiss a persons experience just because you think it's easier for them, which you did, and that' might be why fellow SGs and members got annoyed with you.