FUCK DATING!!!
Last night I went out on a date. I should've known better! He was charming (red flag) and hot (dangerous combo).
So we went out last night, had a great time and even though I promised myself I wouldn't, we ended up hooking up. He was great in bed (the assholes always are!)
So this morning we're texting and I think he really likes me, so I go to add him on fb and when I eventually find him, HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND.
The convo went like this:
Me: So I found you on fb, glad you're cheating on your gf with me.
Asshole:It sounds way worse than it is. I am not happy with her. I just don't know how to end it.
Me: Sorry dude. I don't care what excuse you have
God I fucking knew you were a player.
Asshole:
I understand you're mad and upset but I want you to know it will be over be the end of the month. If you never want to talk with me again, I understand. I just thought you are really awesome and amazing.
Me:sorry, anyone who will go on a dating site (side note: we met on okcupid) while they're in a monogamous relationship is a shitty person. I also don't tolerate liars.
Asshole: I hate this. You deserve better. She deserves better. I am just going to end it. I am so sorry sunshine.
Me: Don't play the victim dude, you did this to yourself and honestly I care more about you hurting your gf than I do about you lying to me. Like I barely know you, but being cheated on fucks up your future relationships. I'm sure your gf is a nice girl and deserves you being honest with her. And you tried to not use a condom with me, like WTF dude? Breaking up with someone is so less shitty than what you're doing. I know I'm not the only one either.
Like seriously? Can someone just restore my faith in humanity and be honest with their significant other? I don't care if you're dating, married, gay, straight, poly, monogamous, WHATEVER, JUST BE FUCKING HONEST WITH EACH OTHER.
/rant
****UPDATE*****
I just told her via facebook.. I haven't gotten a response yet, I just felt like if I was her, I would want to know.
Last night I went out on a date. I should've known better! He was charming (red flag) and hot (dangerous combo).
So we went out last night, had a great time and even though I promised myself I wouldn't, we ended up hooking up. He was great in bed (the assholes always are!)
So this morning we're texting and I think he really likes me, so I go to add him on fb and when I eventually find him, HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND.
The convo went like this:
Me: So I found you on fb, glad you're cheating on your gf with me.
Asshole:It sounds way worse than it is. I am not happy with her. I just don't know how to end it.
Me: Sorry dude. I don't care what excuse you have
God I fucking knew you were a player.
Asshole:
I understand you're mad and upset but I want you to know it will be over be the end of the month. If you never want to talk with me again, I understand. I just thought you are really awesome and amazing.Me:sorry, anyone who will go on a dating site (side note: we met on okcupid) while they're in a monogamous relationship is a shitty person. I also don't tolerate liars.
Asshole: I hate this. You deserve better. She deserves better. I am just going to end it. I am so sorry sunshine.
Me: Don't play the victim dude, you did this to yourself and honestly I care more about you hurting your gf than I do about you lying to me. Like I barely know you, but being cheated on fucks up your future relationships. I'm sure your gf is a nice girl and deserves you being honest with her. And you tried to not use a condom with me, like WTF dude? Breaking up with someone is so less shitty than what you're doing. I know I'm not the only one either.
Like seriously? Can someone just restore my faith in humanity and be honest with their significant other? I don't care if you're dating, married, gay, straight, poly, monogamous, WHATEVER, JUST BE FUCKING HONEST WITH EACH OTHER.
/rant
****UPDATE*****
I just told her via facebook.. I haven't gotten a response yet, I just felt like if I was her, I would want to know.
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newfiecowboy:
And that's why the good guys have a hard time, cause of dickheads like that
emberlynn:
Having been that girlfriend, you did the right thing! They deserve to know. What an arse.