I've had a question about strip club etiquette for some time, but didn't know who to ask. I certainly wouldn't post this on my Facebook page. Too many coworkers, family members, and prudish friends over there. But I thought that maybe SG would be a good place to ask-- the people here are certainly more open sexually; and maybe some members have worked as strippers, or have friends who are strippers. I don't have many followers, but if I'm going to try to be a more active member, I need to actually post things.
So anyway, here's what I've been wondering-- when a guy is getting a private dance (nothing illegal, just a lap dance with a lot of grinding), what do dancers think about a guy having an orgasm during the dance? I mean, I always feel kind of embarrassed when I do it; but I admit that that's why I'm there. It seems dirty, but I also know that, sometimes, the dancer I'm with is pretty clearly working to get me off. And if that's the case, is the dancer insulted if the guy *doesn't* get off?
I assume it's kind of up to personal preference, but I've always wondered if there's a sort of industry-wide understanding that the dancer is trying to get the guy off during a lap dance. I'd feel like a total creep ever saying anything about it to the dancer I'm with (especially with the few who know me as a semi-regular); but I've always wondered.