grimtee:
I feel like it used to be a lot more comfortable to make it abundantly clear to a woman that you wanted to have naked fun with her without it being gross. The prospect of making a woman feel harrassed is awful to me, but approaching that situation carefully totally seems to rob me of my sexual appeal. I still run into a girl every now and again that makes it clear she's happy to be sexual, but I have totally lost confidence in initiating that without really upsetting a girl. I think that we fellas need tips on how to approach the "I want to tear your clothes off and fuck you in your boots" situation without it being something scary. lol. I used to have that swagger, but now I'm scared of getting arrested.