i'm so scared. i have a long distance relationship with a girl who i'm madly in love with.
i'm really bad at relationships. i'm very emotional when it comes to the person i care about the most. i would describe myself as the opposite of what a woman looks for in a man. i cry and talk about my emotions maybe too much.
well anyway after that little bit of background info...
basically the girl i love use to like this guy. she even asked him out and the guy said no he didn't want a relationship or something. that was months ago, before we met.
well apparently they had a lot in common and she gave the guy her number so they could be friends. i trust her. she is going to go hang out with him and play video games.
i trust her. the only thing is... if something does happen there... there's nothing i can do about it. there's nothing she can do about it. if sparks fly between them... it happens what can you do. i'm just so scared of losing her.
i guess it comes from not being very self confident with myself. i'm scared that i'm not good enough. that i'm not enough to keep her in this long distance relationship when she could have something better in person. long distance relationships are hard. i don't want to put her through this.
whatever i guess the only real option is to suck it up. if something happens, it happens, i can't do anything about it. i guess i just have to hope it doesn't and hope that she loves me enough that no matter what she could have with this guy in person, she'll still choose me.
writing that really helped me actually.
i'm really bad at relationships. i'm very emotional when it comes to the person i care about the most. i would describe myself as the opposite of what a woman looks for in a man. i cry and talk about my emotions maybe too much.
well anyway after that little bit of background info...
basically the girl i love use to like this guy. she even asked him out and the guy said no he didn't want a relationship or something. that was months ago, before we met.
well apparently they had a lot in common and she gave the guy her number so they could be friends. i trust her. she is going to go hang out with him and play video games.
i trust her. the only thing is... if something does happen there... there's nothing i can do about it. there's nothing she can do about it. if sparks fly between them... it happens what can you do. i'm just so scared of losing her.
i guess it comes from not being very self confident with myself. i'm scared that i'm not good enough. that i'm not enough to keep her in this long distance relationship when she could have something better in person. long distance relationships are hard. i don't want to put her through this.
whatever i guess the only real option is to suck it up. if something happens, it happens, i can't do anything about it. i guess i just have to hope it doesn't and hope that she loves me enough that no matter what she could have with this guy in person, she'll still choose me.
writing that really helped me actually.
Oh.. my husband is really sweet, and kind, and honest, and shares his emotions freely. I love and look for those qualities in a man.. so I have to say that you can weed out the women who don't deserve to be with someone like you simply by identifying what they are looking for. Chin up, you are clearly a nice guy, and women (not dumb girls) look for that in a man (read:man not boy!).