So I have been a very lucky man in that in the last few months I have made some really good friends. I have been hanging out with them and getting to know them all and as time goes on things come up. Like for instance there is a pretty big chunk of my life I never talk about. All I ever say is "stuff happened", no one has asked questions yet.
Now the reason I don't mention parts of my life is because I was molested when I was about 17. This lasted for about a year and the women seriously screwed me in the head. I spent a good 4 years in therapy and I am much better now. Stronger and healthier both mentally and emotionally than I was before the women came into my life.
But how do you explain this to other people? How do you say "Hey I kind of went crazy". I am fine now and the only way I can explain is to give an analogy.
It is no different than as if I had been in a bad car wreck and had to go to physical therapy. Sure, it took some time, but with a lot of hard work and support, not only did I recover I was stronger than before.
I just don't want to scare people off. Especially not a certain special lady I am seeing right now.
Now the reason I don't mention parts of my life is because I was molested when I was about 17. This lasted for about a year and the women seriously screwed me in the head. I spent a good 4 years in therapy and I am much better now. Stronger and healthier both mentally and emotionally than I was before the women came into my life.
But how do you explain this to other people? How do you say "Hey I kind of went crazy". I am fine now and the only way I can explain is to give an analogy.
It is no different than as if I had been in a bad car wreck and had to go to physical therapy. Sure, it took some time, but with a lot of hard work and support, not only did I recover I was stronger than before.
I just don't want to scare people off. Especially not a certain special lady I am seeing right now.
cruelty:
You could tell them that you went to the Fortress of Solitude for a few years, and when you returned to the "real world," you were Superman.