No matter how we argue, life centers around ourselves. It kind of makes sense as our own paradigm is the only one we can relate to. We interpret the outside world and events in terms of this paradigm. Although this is perfectly valid it is not necessarily useful as most of the world is not concerned with us directly. At the office or home we are often the victim of a snappy or bitchy remark. The natural reaction is What have I done? Nothing is the answer in most cases. You were in the way. Often by coincidence. The person who handed out the remark was in an angry space and it was easy to vent it on you. This is important to understand as you are not actually involved and do not need to react emotionally to it. There is a lot of freedom in this understanding.
As humans we tend to personalise our experiences which means we become part of the ham sandwich - quite unnecessarily so. Most of life in fact has a transpersonal character and can safely be left so. How good can a day be if nobody was bitchy towards you? The point is that most days are so if we alter our perception.
@venom has a remarkable set called Sea Hag. It has an amazing transpersonal sexuality to it. A hag in a fairy tail is always an archetypal character which represents something rather than somebody. The same in this set - as though it is not @venom ’s sexuality here at the core but rather something that might belong to a sea nymph.