what a tragic time in our small circle. our friend stacey (lilfleur ) was killed in a car accident this week. the blow hit hard within the tight knit community we've become, and no one really knows what to think. I have lost grandparents in my life, but i don't know how to process losing someone in this way. i think and think about the last time i saw her, the last thing we said, the last email i got, the memories that were once just a passing thought here and there, are now like tiny specs of gold in my brain. wanting to keep them, and retain their value. i don't wish this feeling on my worst enemy. i'm worried about my friends right now, especially josephene, i find myself hovering over her, wanting to say the right thing. what i knew about stace and experienced with her pales in comparison to their bond. i feel helpless to ease her pain, and i don't know what to do. our friend steve, who was dating stace, is also in my thoughts. he seems to be throwing himself into his family, which is a good thing. he's got two little boys that will keep him and his mind busy. i'm just at a loss, what do you do?
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Just be yourself and be there to listen, or get said nothing to or even get snapped at. . . jsut trust yourself to do what you can. It all helps even when you get told people want to be alone they were happy you were there to send away. So sorry.