ghost_boy

This has been a good couple weeks for me, in regards to opportunities to admire the female form: sexy friends and strangers all dressed up for Halloween; lithe actresses in harem outfits for a production of Arabian Nights; and then dancing at a local goth club, where several more friends were out and displayed in sexy finery. I was inspired to much flirting, which resulted in a few very pleasant responses--which made me appreciate certain outfits even more, heh. I am reminded of times when I used to just sit at home or at the edge of things, waiting for something to happen--only later realizing that when you do that, most of the time nothing will.

So now I try and make sure I put myself into situations where something might happen--not just with flirtations, but anything fun. Sometimes friends will just call you up, or a perfect stranger will just fall into your lap--but the more you put yourself out there (or at least show up where people are), the more frequently fun things will happen to you.

So, I'm still oftentimes the quiet one--but the quiet ones at parties or dance clubs generally has more adventures than the quiet ones who stays at home or is on the computer all the time.

And a funny thing can happen when you do this often enough--you find that you are not so quiet after all, and initiate your own fun, instead of just waiting for it to find you. And then suddenly you're providing fun to someone else, and that's a whole new game.