gentleman_loser

I must have some kind of major defect. I spent a good chunk of the last week flirting with this rather cute and interesting girl that works at a store near where I work, downtown. We keep running into each other on our breaks, she'll pass by and say hi, etc.. For some reason, I get the idea that she is into me. Everyone who has seen the way she behaves around me seems to agree (my gut feeling in such matters is wrong more than some of the time, so it's good to have a second or third opinion). Anyways, we had been talking about all sorts of things, and I bring up plans for the weekend (I had asked her before about what she likes to do, when she's not working in a boutique that she hates)..She mentions that she has to study (she;s in some kind of trade program and it finishes in august) but that her *BOYFRIEND* is a bit PO'd because she doesn't have more time to spend with him. She never brought him up , and we have spent several hours I'd say chatting about this and that(including things to do on weekends, "extra-curricular activities" and so on). I would have assumed she would have already mentioned it by now. Am I just a naive suck, or what? I was even going to get a haircut :-p

Since my ex, there have been 3 girls I would consider that I have made some attempt to get to know , with the eventual purpose of asking out etc.. One just wasn't interested. Fine, nothing wrong with that, I mean I can understand someone not being interested in someone else. She was fairly clear about being friends but nothing more. Alrighty then. But the other two....both turn out to be in relationships. I think I must be missing some kind of gene or chromosome or something that lets me detect things like this. Is something wrong with me that I am only attracted to unnatainable women in relationships? The only other alternative is that there are next to no single women , ages , oh , say 21-29 in a 20 kilometer radius of me (Seems *highly* unlikely), so I guess I am eternally doomed to pursue unavailable ones.

Sucks to be me