I need a MANs opinion please:
I am seeing a guy, we are sleeping together. No official boundaries have been set, cause I just got out of a relationship and I dont want to jump back in one....however I thought him and I had discussed being friends with benefits because we both want to stay CLEAN. He says we never really discussed it and it seems like a miscommunication. Here is the deal, he has been my only partner, but I found out I havent been his. Now he says I have to put up boundaries if I want them there, not just wish them to be, which I agree. Do I put up boundaries now, or do I find a new buddy?
I am seeing a guy, we are sleeping together. No official boundaries have been set, cause I just got out of a relationship and I dont want to jump back in one....however I thought him and I had discussed being friends with benefits because we both want to stay CLEAN. He says we never really discussed it and it seems like a miscommunication. Here is the deal, he has been my only partner, but I found out I havent been his. Now he says I have to put up boundaries if I want them there, not just wish them to be, which I agree. Do I put up boundaries now, or do I find a new buddy?
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I would say find someone more loyal.
otherwise, it could just be miscommunication, and, in all relationships, however they're defined, communication is essential.
Good luck.