so i get a call today from my friend liz, who also works at berretts. she knows about the whole "being stood up" thing and so she talked to the girl about it. didn't tell her that i was mad or that she knew i got stood up, just acted like she knew we were supposed to go out. oh, the girls name is Kirsten, by the way. anyway, kirsten apparently told liz that she just doesn't call guys. she's old fashioned and kind of shy about it anyway, and she was really upset about what had happened. liz is like "just ask her for her number and then call her." then i go into work and kirsten finds me and without any prompting gives me her number and appologizes and says to call her tonight to meet her and some other people at the green leaf (a bar) for a drink.....
so now i'm really confused. i don't know if i should be mad at her or forgive her and get over it or what. i mean, i'm still pissed about it, but she did appologize and try to sort of make up for it.....i guess. but is that enough? i don't know. do i call her? i went to the green leaf without calling her and got a beer, but she was occupied with talking to everyone else, and me and the other dude from the kitchen just sat at our end of the table and had a beer and then left. she smiled at me. but still, do i call her or just drop it or what?
fuck, it would have been so much easier if she'd just been a bitch and i could have been like "fuck her!" and gotten wasted.
someone (read: you girls) please explain to me and instruct me.
so now i'm really confused. i don't know if i should be mad at her or forgive her and get over it or what. i mean, i'm still pissed about it, but she did appologize and try to sort of make up for it.....i guess. but is that enough? i don't know. do i call her? i went to the green leaf without calling her and got a beer, but she was occupied with talking to everyone else, and me and the other dude from the kitchen just sat at our end of the table and had a beer and then left. she smiled at me. but still, do i call her or just drop it or what?
fuck, it would have been so much easier if she'd just been a bitch and i could have been like "fuck her!" and gotten wasted.
someone (read: you girls) please explain to me and instruct me.
just my 2 cents....one crazy woman's perspective