ooo i always forget to update this anymore. here goes...
the closing on the house got pushed back a few more times but we ended up moving in on april fools day
yes thats right, i have heat AND electricity AND hot water, unlike the last place i was staying. spiffy! i just got done shampooing the last carpet. its taken me awhile because my...
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the closing on the house got pushed back a few more times but we ended up moving in on april fools day
yes thats right, i have heat AND electricity AND hot water, unlike the last place i was staying. spiffy! i just got done shampooing the last carpet. its taken me awhile because my... Read More
lemuria:
HAPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
fatality:
Dude, how ya doin?
so maybe i should update this thing huh? since its been the better part of 8 months or so.
father update : he is still relearning to walk, but now with a cane instead of a walker. he is doing much much better overall. they finally removed the last feeding tube from his stomach and after the wound heals he is getting a pacemaker put...
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father update : he is still relearning to walk, but now with a cane instead of a walker. he is doing much much better overall. they finally removed the last feeding tube from his stomach and after the wound heals he is getting a pacemaker put...
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chipawah:
I really don't know how you all handle that snow stuff.
Anyways, cool that you're doing well. My job is getting as boring as ever and I could use a damn vacation.. Or at least someone to do the work while I sit around! hah
Anyways, cool that you're doing well. My job is getting as boring as ever and I could use a damn vacation.. Or at least someone to do the work while I sit around! hah
fatality:
so...the house closed....
haha
haha
so here's the official news. im moving back to PA as of august 1st. my dad is doing better i suppose, and is going to need alot of help when he is out of the hospital. i feel it is my duty to help the man who gave me so much for so long.
right now the stress lies in this godawful cough i cant...
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right now the stress lies in this godawful cough i cant...
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lemuria:
hello! it was nice seeing you on new years eve. did you have fun? happy new year!!! 
ps. if you give me your address i will send you a card of some sort since you missed out on a christmas one this year.
ps. if you give me your address i will send you a card of some sort since you missed out on a christmas one this year.
fatality:
Miss you, too! Maybe I'll see you...one day?...
i hope
i hope
went to pa for the weekend/holiday, although i spent most of the holiday driving back i only got to see my dad once because hospitals are such fucking jokes. last week i talked to a step-sister (dont worry, they didnt call me, i had to call THEM to find out what was going on) and they told me that he was being moved from geisinger...
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i only got to see my dad once because hospitals are such fucking jokes. last week i talked to a step-sister (dont worry, they didnt call me, i had to call THEM to find out what was going on) and they told me that he was being moved from geisinger... Read More
chipawah:
I spent it working. That's how free I am. hah!
Wait.. What's a vacation?
Wait.. What's a vacation?
lemuria:
hospitals around here are bunk!!! im glad he was taken back to geisinger though, it sounds like its a lot better for him.
oh yeah, and happy belated birthday!!!
oh yeah, and happy belated birthday!!!
finally some good news about my dad. over the weekend when i was in pa, he they got him off the sedative and he was minorly reposonsive. i asked if everything was ok and he nodded yes, that sort of thing. today apparently he was sitting in a chair in his room for a bit, so hes fully awake. still on antibiotic and some other...
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jamielee:
Rice and beans....BLAH??? BLASPHEMY!!!! Rice and beans don't have to be blah, if you know how to make them right...
clytie:
how's your dad? i hope all is well.
nice to see you again- even if its only in cyber-space...
nice to see you again- even if its only in cyber-space...
off to PA for until sunday. hopefully my dad is awake for fathers day, but even if he isnt, i will be there. nine inch nails in NJ on wednesday. i cant fucking wait! the weather is finally amazing outside and i want to skip work today to be out doing fun stuff.
jamielee:
Good luck with your dad. I'm going to see NIN tonight in DC.
lemuria:
enjoy the time with your dad. have fun in nj and dont get lost on the turnpike. 
ok so it took a bit longer than i thought to update. i end up coming home from work and not wanting to think at all. stupid job.
2 saturday's ago my dad had a heart attack. as of that sunday, it was very mild, nothing scary. monday he went in for testing to make sure he was good to go home. turns out his...
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2 saturday's ago my dad had a heart attack. as of that sunday, it was very mild, nothing scary. monday he went in for testing to make sure he was good to go home. turns out his...
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lemuria:
man, i feel like crap that i missed out on giving you a big hug when you were down here last weekend...i think you could use one right now. (i do give great hugs ) i can completely relate to what you mean about the phone ringing. it was like that when my mom was in the hospice. i feared every single ring during that week. just know that you and your family are in my thoughts. i will send some good energy over his way. which hospital am i directing it to? one here or up on the mountains where youre from? geisinger? i will send it. just remember to take care of yourself in this time too. dont forget about you. i know it seems hard. all you want to do is think about your dad, not even on purpose, your brain just does. but please remember to eat and try to sleep and such. and try to smile at least once.
) i can completely relate to what you mean about the phone ringing. it was like that when my mom was in the hospice. i feared every single ring during that week. just know that you and your family are in my thoughts. i will send some good energy over his way. which hospital am i directing it to? one here or up on the mountains where youre from? geisinger? i will send it. just remember to take care of yourself in this time too. dont forget about you. i know it seems hard. all you want to do is think about your dad, not even on purpose, your brain just does. but please remember to eat and try to sleep and such. and try to smile at least once.
chipawah:
I remember when my father went through that. He had a mild stroke, but I drove like a madman down US19 from New Port Richie all the way into south St. Petersburg. By the time I got there, the worse had passed and he was doing pretty good.. As it turned out. I wasn't even called until that evening and he had it in the morning. My Mother is one of those that doesn't like to tell people things until it's already passed.. I think it was more like she wasn't able to get two words out anyways.. So, for that I think it's the best. My father's dad had close to 8 heart attacks, 2 minor strokes and the 1 big one that finally took his life. I'm sure you know well what I had felt knowing my own family history.
He's doing very well now. So, with any hopes your father will also get back onto the road to good health.
But, no matter what happens. We're here for ya, if you got anything you need to get off your shoulders.
He's doing very well now. So, with any hopes your father will also get back onto the road to good health.
But, no matter what happens. We're here for ya, if you got anything you need to get off your shoulders.
update tomorrow
chipawah:
Don't update! Fight the power!
Dude, I saw you on AIM. heh. I was going send an IM but I got distracted by something shiny.
Dude, I saw you on AIM. heh. I was going send an IM but I got distracted by something shiny.
erg. i was really sick on friday, some sort of stomach thing that ended up working itself out by saturday morning, but i definitly could barely function on friday. it got me out of work early, i dosed myself with a handful on nyquil liquicaps, and slept for 17 straight hours. problem solved. however this was just the start to a shitty weekend i guess....
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jamielee:
Ugh sorry to hear about your dad. I'm crossing my fingers for some better news for you!!
lemuria:
man im sorry. i hope things work out with your dad soon. i would go visit him if i didnt think he would be weirded out by some random girl coming to see him in the hospital.
man im sorry. i hope things work out with your dad soon. i would go visit him if i didnt think he would be weirded out by some random girl coming to see him in the hospital. what have i been up to lately? not much. i have a horrible migraine right now, but that might be because its 78 degrees in my fooking apartment. gah. going to sleep early in hopes that my headache will clear up. other than that...zombies!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_Mht96rxRI&search=zombie
zombies attacked boston last weekend. close to 300 of them from what i hear. i was there too, but not...
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_Mht96rxRI&search=zombie
zombies attacked boston last weekend. close to 300 of them from what i hear. i was there too, but not...
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fatality:
NEVER, apparently?!
fatality:
I'm only here for about a couple more hours, but when I come back I'll be far less busy than I was this time around