I hate that. People who don't know experience it themselves never seem to understand. Recently a guy told me that I need to sleep whenever I am tired. With that smug attitude that only those who can sleep without trying seem to have. He doesn't understand that sleepy and tied are not the same, I am always tired. I yearn to be sleepy.
I sympathize if it is--I barely slept last night myself.
I read your "bursting" post in the HP group.
I've finished it and will absolutely not spoil if you want to message me.