friedbanana

It's strange to think that sometimes I feel loss is a good thing, something to savor. The absence throws into sharp relief what once was there, while at the same time giving it a definite finish, making it complete, whole. A relationship can only be viewed for what it is after it's over. Granted, that's hardly any type of comfort, but it is what I think of.

I actually didn't even know Eggers had put out that book until you mentioned it, so I'm going to have to pick it up. Did it turn out good?

Fear of the unknown is quite the normal thing. I'm more scared of needles than of the unknown, so that's what freaked me out. Walking into the operating room and seeing the IV there. Damn. Weak in the knees.

i think we all have those lost lists. but really the gain lists are always good. there are very few relationships that ive had where my list is short, but i know when the bad side outweighs the good side its time to cut my losses.

have fun.