Reflecting on my favorite SGH

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Bex, known here as SG Hopeful Kazumi, lived with my wives and I during a transitional time in her life. It afforded us a lot of opportunities to shoot, producing two hopeful sets and a lot of other fun stuff as well. She has moved on and my camera misses her spirit.

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freqonnaleash:
@cpmower831 Yep, two wives.  My 1st wife of 25 years, and our wife of 16 years.  Being poly has other benefits, but the reality of having more than one partner is you get told no twice as often!
cpmower831:
Yeah I could see that being an issue

Sunday

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Ladies in the Bellingham WA area, I have a great space available on my lady friends property overlooking Lake Whatcom for outdoor shoots as well as indoor. If you are in the area and are interested in doing something for fun or want to work up a submission set, let me know.

Monday

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I have a theory, just something that occurred to me really. The potential source of all those random socks that seem to have no partner in your sock drawer: Sock babies. Yes, I said sock babies. Think about it, we all joke about makin sock babies (jerking off in a sock to keep the mess contained), but in reality they exist and explain how we...
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Wednesday

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Haven't really been on here since my friend Kazumi dropped out of SG, and any of the other hopefuls in the area were either too far away, or didn't think my photo skills were what they were looking for.
Since then I haven't been shooting too much, mostly doing some shadowplay work with a couple freinds/lovers. Otherwise working too much, playing too little, but still...
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Getting here from there, 20 years in a ployamorous relationship.

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NOTE: This is a re-post from another blog we have. Our friend and now roommate @kazumi mentions to people she is living with her "photographer and his wives", which usually gets some attention. We're used to it, but people are always curious how it works. To be frank, I really have NO idea, it just does, and I wouldn't trade it for anything/one.

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freqonnaleash:
I spoke too soon on the whole Poly-fidelity thing,...   Couple months ago a close friend of ours revealed she developed an attraction to me to our girlfriend.  They came up with the idea I could give her a go (I've always found her attractive, so, sure!) and if it worked out I could become her stunt cock to stave off her own needs that were rising hard and getting in the way of her professional life.  So, we did, it was AWESOME, mostly.  :P  We got to a 1-2 rolls a week routine with very basic rules, the most important of which, our girlfriend didn't want to hear about it (my wife on the other hand, she loved hearing it and it got her all hot and bothered).  The whole event woke us all up, we stared being more active, and I realized I had been sliding into a mild depression for the last 6-9 months.  In the end it was worth the adjustments and other minor issues for us all to get that wakeup call and see in a new light where we were as a traid.  However,...  My new playmate kept trying to talk to my girlfriend, worse to complain about items she should have been talking to *me* about concerning sex my girlfriend isn't getting because we see eachother 2 days a week due to our work schedules.  So on strike three the girlfriend lost her shit and revoked her permission to utilize my services.  That went over,... Poorly.   Our traid is good, stronger now, and the girls have decided I can continue to go and play, assuming I can find people to play with.  Yeah, good luck with that!   Our friendship with my former playmate is rocky at best, even though she was the one that kept pushing and breaking her friends requirements, she is acting hurt and, I don't know.  It did teach us to be MUCH more selctive about whom I play with tho.  Preferably peoiple we KNOW can handle the friend/playmate dynamic.
freqonnaleash:
4 and a half years later:  I am back to being fairly close with the aforementioned playmate.  Close enough we can talk about our sex lives, and she can stand to sleep next to me when she is visiting the girls and I without there being drama (always a plus).  I have a pain slut I have been seeing/abusing for almost 4 years now, and another woman for over 2 years who didn't start off as submissive, but I managed to guide into letting me use her as I please.  They are both give/take relationships with very fair compensations for their submission.  I have even managed to introduce them and the three of us have had a couple fun trysts.  My wives are supportive of this and allow me my appetites.  They even enjoy the company of the newer plaything, and we see her socially on occasion as well.  Overall life is good.
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