Romance, or Stalking?
Well, let's start this blog off with what I'm currently thinking about. I'll start with a litte scenario (yes this scenario is fictitious and isn't something I did and am retelling in the third person
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Boy plans an evening for girl. He goes out and buys her the most vibrant bouqet of red roses he can find. He sets up a massage table in her back yard and prepares a feast of well made chargrilled foods on the barbeque and has some wine on ice. Her placemat has a poem about her written on it. All systems are check for seduction when she gets home from work at sunset.
Now this scenario could go either way. After some consideration I came to conclude that if something is to be defined as stalking or romance, it depends entirely on the willingness of the recipient.
Read it again as though it was done for you by person whom you desire. Pretty nice everning huh? Now read it again as though it was done by someone....less than desirable? Uh huh... now it's stalking. Boy will either walk away with a smile on his face for days....or a boquet of roses and a placemat up his arse.
The lesson here is watch out for romantics...they have all the mechanics in place to turn into world class stalkers should your relationship come to an end.
Don't be a gumby with romance...
Well, let's start this blog off with what I'm currently thinking about. I'll start with a litte scenario (yes this scenario is fictitious and isn't something I did and am retelling in the third person
)
Boy plans an evening for girl. He goes out and buys her the most vibrant bouqet of red roses he can find. He sets up a massage table in her back yard and prepares a feast of well made chargrilled foods on the barbeque and has some wine on ice. Her placemat has a poem about her written on it. All systems are check for seduction when she gets home from work at sunset.
Now this scenario could go either way. After some consideration I came to conclude that if something is to be defined as stalking or romance, it depends entirely on the willingness of the recipient.
Read it again as though it was done for you by person whom you desire. Pretty nice everning huh? Now read it again as though it was done by someone....less than desirable? Uh huh... now it's stalking. Boy will either walk away with a smile on his face for days....or a boquet of roses and a placemat up his arse.
The lesson here is watch out for romantics...they have all the mechanics in place to turn into world class stalkers should your relationship come to an end.
Don't be a gumby with romance...
coyotemike:
I just have no desire to have any sort of one-two-night stand anymore.
hunneydrop:
watch out for romantics eh.... so, this is just an elaborate ready-made excuse for your lack of future romanticism..? still think i'd rather receive this scenario and have the choice whether to go for the massage and meal or to shove things up his arse than not... or who knows.. maybe both..?! 