Just a little rant

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Over the years I've had some relationships. Some good and some bad, each with a lesson. I have changed my prefrences to adjust to those I find myself attracted to.

With each break up I went through I gain a new love of myself.

The growing love of myself caused me to be more stubborn about what I want for myself and future.

Here I...
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benchwmr:
Best wishes in the new year!
renardmlespoules:
This sounds like the idea of a good life to me!

I am allowed to be picky.

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Relationships... forever my curse. At this point in time of my life and the past six years.

Maybe its part of my life of lessons? Maybe I need to learn to be more selfish habits of who I talk to?

I am not afraid to love, I am afraid to not be loved back.

I crave to be read like a old fashioned bonded book....
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benchwmr:
Very well written
foxymuse420:
Thank you 😘😘

I know what I want. Waiting to start.

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Im so very impatient with myself. I come up with ideas and plans on the daily. Some I forget instantly, and some I start and dont fully follow through. The ones I actually accomplish are some of my favorite moments.

I can feel the universe putting exactly what I have been asking for in place for me. Slow and steady so I don't rush into...
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benchwmr:
Sometimes we are the worst at planning our own lives, but what we get instead is better than what we wished for. Slow down and savor it is a great philosophy.
midnight:
You're such a fluid writer I love reading your blogs

Looking for tips and suggestions :)

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Recently have come to a decision to pursue the passions that I really have. I didn't think that I could really do anything with what i was raised to consider taboo.

I enjoying showing off my body in different forms including modeling, dancing, yoga, or just being in the natural state in suppose to be in. I want to start dancing, begin to expand my...
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soultry:
Get it girl!!! Keep us posted on your progress 😀
midnight:
I've considered teaching myself. I've been to lots of yoga classes. Someone told me on YouTube there's great videos for starting your practice at home😘

How open is an open relationship?

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Im guessing it would all depend on the ones involved. How many have heard or seen the husband with many wives? Not as much as the concept of a wife with many husbands. And what about wife with many wives and husbands. Ive been having deep thoughts about this as i go over my past relationships. Trying to figure out what i really want out...
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kingsiren:
My wife and I have an open relationship and it is my first and best (clearly since we married) relationship. It aids to a certain level of honesty that most monogamous relationships suffer without. It's not that we don't love each other, we just understand that we are both human. To expect monogamy is, to us, to expect a lifetime if unachievable perfection and false happiness.
torlano:

    I'll tell you what happened with me:

    

        One day I realized that the only time I wanted to be in a traditional exclusive romantic relationship was when I wasn't in one; it was a mind game. After that, I basically deprogrammed society's expectations out of me and started rolling my own way. I established my own personal boundaries well then invited ladies who were congruent with them into my sphere.    

    

        If I desire to sustain a relationship with a woman, I want to know her well and have her be a solid friend of mine before we become sexually active. I don't want to become attached to someone if we're incompatible on many levels.    

    

        I'd suggest to not get deeply involved with people who can't or won't support themselves. Some folk are always in a relationship because they want another person, or other people, to pay the overwhelming majority of their bills. Sometimes this also allows them to live well above their means. Often, they're going to tell you whatever they believe you want to hear.    

    

        I've always felt that other people are compliments not completions. Other people may certainly enhance my happiness and they're not responsible for it.    

    

        I should note I've more than a few deep meaningful friendships with ladies that do not include sexual activity. I would prefer to forgo sexual activity with a great female friend if I believe it would undermine our relationship for whatever the reason.    

    

        Open relationships aren't for everyone and they've worked well for me. They work for me because they're built on a foundation that includes respect, admiration, honesty/integrity and shared values. Of course, "chemistry" needs to be present. If you've any questions, feel free to ask.    


Embracing the changes

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Funny how i'm still learning about myself. Who am i kidding i'm just getting to know myself, with 27 right around the corner. Finally seeing my passions breaking through my sheltered mind. Always worried about what people think i should be instead of what i really want. I think with my goal fully set i am ready to embark on fufilling myself to who i...
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davidlopansbro:
I went back to school at 27, best decision I ever made. My first degree, my gpa was about 2.8, second degree 3.85 and I was working full time. Experience makes all the difference, reveals us to ourselves!
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