1o yrs of marriage and two kids latter. I came out of this relationship a fighter! I finally achieved the power to level up and earned my freedom at last! Along with a little self respect! This has been by far one of the most toxic, humbling and dysfunctional things I've had to deal with in a long time. Fuck Court and lawyers and then constantly having someone tear you down. The process was a war and with many casualties... still I kept my head straight and accomplished the task of Adulting and refused to brake . Such a relief! I can't believe its over... I actually finalized my divorce this month after all the insanity.... and I have never felt... and looked fucking better!