Okay, so I asked the person that I am fixated with if she had ever heard of suicide girls or been on the web site and then told her it would be a very good idea to avoid the site altogether or at least give me a "heads up" first if she is going to peruse the site, but I didn't tell her why. I just told her it was REALLY important that she let me know first. The reason for this is twofold: one, I need to delete incriminating evidence if she is going to check out the site as a member and two, I am mindfucking her. If I can't play with her body I am at least going to play with her mind. 