So, here's just an example of how bad my taste is in women.
I went to a call the other day where a woman thought that someone was tampering with her house. She took me around showing me minor imperfections in paint, uneven legs on homemade chairs and things that were just normal wear and tear that she though were indications of people being in her house. It quickly became clear that while she didn't need a straight jacket, but she was just a little bit on the nutty side of sane. After deciding she had some mental problems, I stayed a while longer finishing up the call and suddenly found myself having a good time talking to the crazy lady. Why am I like that?
On the other hand, there is a dispatcher at work who I think has a little thing for me. She rode out with me one time and now sends me messages over the computer all the time while I'm working and calls occasionally. She is my age, we share several common interests/philosophies, she's petite and definitely attractive. She is completely sane. And for some reason I'm not going after her.
I went to a call the other day where a woman thought that someone was tampering with her house. She took me around showing me minor imperfections in paint, uneven legs on homemade chairs and things that were just normal wear and tear that she though were indications of people being in her house. It quickly became clear that while she didn't need a straight jacket, but she was just a little bit on the nutty side of sane. After deciding she had some mental problems, I stayed a while longer finishing up the call and suddenly found myself having a good time talking to the crazy lady. Why am I like that?
On the other hand, there is a dispatcher at work who I think has a little thing for me. She rode out with me one time and now sends me messages over the computer all the time while I'm working and calls occasionally. She is my age, we share several common interests/philosophies, she's petite and definitely attractive. She is completely sane. And for some reason I'm not going after her.
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In order to do this according to the scientific method (I know it's totally insane to try and apply reason to dating women in the first place) you'll need a larger sample and some kind of control group.
Hell, it's just dating, right? Does your department have any kind of official policy regarding employee fraternization? If not, ask the dispatcher to ride out with you again, then stop at Sonic and buy her lunch. Low pressure enough?
Is there a policy that covers fraternization with the eccentric lady with the defective paint?
Bottom line is that you don't want to endanger your employment, yet where else ya gonna meet women?