ok so what is it that I always attract the fucking psycho's.
I dated this girl back in the summer for about a month or so. Because of my job (which I told her about from the get go) we didn't see each other but maybe 3 or 4 times.
Most we did was kiss, but I wasn't really too into this girl.
I couldn't make it to some planned thing she had with her family one weekend because of my job and she threw a fit at me. Well as I said it wasn't working to begin with so I basically ended up ending it then. As it wasn't going to go anywhere. Again we only saw each other a few times but did usually speak every day at least. Never did more then kiss like..twice maybe.
Ok fast forward to yesterday, I'm going to work and I come up to a stop light. Her car is in the lane to go straight (I knew it was her car because it has markings on it that make it easy to see) But I'm turning right to head up the road.
Ok I think nothing of it other then "oh her." I slow down at the light cause a car was coming and when I went to go, because the ground was wet, the tires squealed some. Ok whatever, let off gas, go about my way.
Sooo..I go in this morning and the service and maintenance manager say they have to talk to me about something. So as usual I ask what I did this time. They kinda laugh and hand me the memo the secretary took down from a complaint call.
I start to read it and see something about harrassment..and look up and say "I know this is a joke" thinking they were fucking with me.
Doug, the service manager, looks at me smiling and says "no jason, that is a real call we got yesterday"..so I'm like..ookay. what the fuck..and finish reading it.
finally I place it by the mans last name. Being the same as said girl I dated months ago.
Apparently he called saying I have been harrassing his daughter out on the road and whatnot and finally yesterday (when I was next to the car) it "wasn't her but her mother" in the car. So the bitch told her husband (the girls dad, one that called this in) that I tried to run her off the road yesterday.....
.....I haven't even seen the girl since I broke it off 5...6..months ago?
So I don't know if this psycho has been lying to her parents and telling them I've been doing this shit. Regardless even the mother is lying because all I did was go by her and didn't even look twice at the car when I first saw it and realized it was hers.
Again I haven't even seen the bitch for 5 or 6 months...yet I'm harrassing her and tried to run her mother off the road.
And they threatened to "call the state police if it happens again."
The only reason I care that much is if the bitch is lying and get's the cops involved I'm going to have to go through some battle to prove it's all a bunch of shit.
I swear why can't poeple just leave shit alone, I have no idea if the girl I dated has been lying for whatever reason and it escalated into this or if this is some scheme from them to get me fired for whatever reason...but why not..6 months after the fact?
the two managers that talked to me about it laughed about it, and doug suggested I get a restraining order in a half joking tone. Then they messed with me about it.
I'm pretty sure they know me well enough to know I wouldn't do some bullshit like that. And even if I would I"m not stupid enough to do it in a company vehicle where I'm basically a driving billboard. I mean c'mon...
If this is all that goes on whatever even I can maybe laugh about it. But, sorry to say, when a girl accuses a guy of some shit like this it's a lot harder for him to prove it's a lie then it is if it was reversed. And who knows what else she's been saying.
We dated, it didn't work, I ended it. Never gave it another thought. But now so many months later, they put a bullshit call into my office.
Bleh whatever. Guy I work with is right, the girls around here are strange.
I dated this girl back in the summer for about a month or so. Because of my job (which I told her about from the get go) we didn't see each other but maybe 3 or 4 times.
Most we did was kiss, but I wasn't really too into this girl.
I couldn't make it to some planned thing she had with her family one weekend because of my job and she threw a fit at me. Well as I said it wasn't working to begin with so I basically ended up ending it then. As it wasn't going to go anywhere. Again we only saw each other a few times but did usually speak every day at least. Never did more then kiss like..twice maybe.
Ok fast forward to yesterday, I'm going to work and I come up to a stop light. Her car is in the lane to go straight (I knew it was her car because it has markings on it that make it easy to see) But I'm turning right to head up the road.
Ok I think nothing of it other then "oh her." I slow down at the light cause a car was coming and when I went to go, because the ground was wet, the tires squealed some. Ok whatever, let off gas, go about my way.
Sooo..I go in this morning and the service and maintenance manager say they have to talk to me about something. So as usual I ask what I did this time. They kinda laugh and hand me the memo the secretary took down from a complaint call.
I start to read it and see something about harrassment..and look up and say "I know this is a joke" thinking they were fucking with me.
Doug, the service manager, looks at me smiling and says "no jason, that is a real call we got yesterday"..so I'm like..ookay. what the fuck..and finish reading it.
finally I place it by the mans last name. Being the same as said girl I dated months ago.
Apparently he called saying I have been harrassing his daughter out on the road and whatnot and finally yesterday (when I was next to the car) it "wasn't her but her mother" in the car. So the bitch told her husband (the girls dad, one that called this in) that I tried to run her off the road yesterday.....
.....I haven't even seen the girl since I broke it off 5...6..months ago?
So I don't know if this psycho has been lying to her parents and telling them I've been doing this shit. Regardless even the mother is lying because all I did was go by her and didn't even look twice at the car when I first saw it and realized it was hers.
Again I haven't even seen the bitch for 5 or 6 months...yet I'm harrassing her and tried to run her mother off the road.
And they threatened to "call the state police if it happens again."
The only reason I care that much is if the bitch is lying and get's the cops involved I'm going to have to go through some battle to prove it's all a bunch of shit.
I swear why can't poeple just leave shit alone, I have no idea if the girl I dated has been lying for whatever reason and it escalated into this or if this is some scheme from them to get me fired for whatever reason...but why not..6 months after the fact?
the two managers that talked to me about it laughed about it, and doug suggested I get a restraining order in a half joking tone. Then they messed with me about it.
I'm pretty sure they know me well enough to know I wouldn't do some bullshit like that. And even if I would I"m not stupid enough to do it in a company vehicle where I'm basically a driving billboard. I mean c'mon...
If this is all that goes on whatever even I can maybe laugh about it. But, sorry to say, when a girl accuses a guy of some shit like this it's a lot harder for him to prove it's a lie then it is if it was reversed. And who knows what else she's been saying.
We dated, it didn't work, I ended it. Never gave it another thought. But now so many months later, they put a bullshit call into my office.
Bleh whatever. Guy I work with is right, the girls around here are strange.
Sorry this is happening... it sucks! Hope things improve and that nothing else happens / they don't go the police etc!