fiver2

Was just thinking, ive not been happy because almost all people around me dont seem to care about my feelings. Im now understanding this a couple of ways. First, society typically shows the man as the "strong" one and so most men grow up with a sort of detachment disorder from there feelings. I like most men started growing up with this problem but I was able to see the problem in my father and correct it in myself. The problem is society hasnt changed at all so therefor my girlfriend is going to have some difficulty not seeing this. Add that to the second problem being that I AM that detached strong man on the surface and you have a recipe for a depressed lonely man even if he has friends or even a girlfriend.

First off how do i correct my own depression.
I now understand i should ever give someone else control over my happiness, it is a state of mind and my own state of mind is the ONLY thing i have complete control over. So address the negative feelings, figure out what causes them with a level head and STOP IT! Then make yourself happy.

Not sure how to correct others at all but i suppose if you read this, maybe it will be a start.

(not really corrected, hope it makes sense)