A few things have happened recently, on this site & away from it, that have made me frustrated about men in particular's view of what makes a woman hot.
If there's a stunning girl, with fake tan/breasts/nails and an average looking girl who's natural but totally content and confident...I will always think the average looking girl is hotter.
I'm shy, and quite quiet when I first meet people and this often gets mistaken for insecurity.
I'm not insecure at all anymore...I'm so much more comfortable with how I look and who I am now, than I was when I was a size 6 five years ago.
I've gained weight/lost weight...I have scarred arms, a massive cesarean scar...I'm virtually flat chested which I used to hate...scars on my face from old piercings...a tattoo that's ruined and faded from a hospital visit...
But this is me, I'm all natural and my body tells a story.
I've learnt over time to like myself and appreciate who I am and what I look like as a woman.
And I'm damn happy and proud of myself.
EDIT- I would never criticise anyone or look down on someone who dramatically changed something they disliked about themselves. I guess my main issue is people not learning to love the quirks which make them different. Imperfections are what make us who we are, and it's just really sad to see people feel the need to change it when I just wish with empathy that everyone could be a bit happier with themselves (idealistic and naive yes, but I can live in hope!)
Also, a week or so ago I showed my mum my SG photos and she nearly cried she was so proud.
She said she loved how much more comfortable I am with myself now, and I was so pleased that she was proud of me.
Anyway.
In light of celebrating natural beauty, here's some oh-so-hot, confident ladies that are rocking MR right now, and who deserve front page as they're what I love about Suicide Girls.
AnnaLee
Lottey
Plum
Lass
HENIKA
And I will be joining these ladies in MR again on the 21st.
I'm hoping you'll all love the set as much as I do...
On a different note, this is how my weekend looked...
Fische <3
If there's a stunning girl, with fake tan/breasts/nails and an average looking girl who's natural but totally content and confident...I will always think the average looking girl is hotter.
I'm shy, and quite quiet when I first meet people and this often gets mistaken for insecurity.
I'm not insecure at all anymore...I'm so much more comfortable with how I look and who I am now, than I was when I was a size 6 five years ago.
I've gained weight/lost weight...I have scarred arms, a massive cesarean scar...I'm virtually flat chested which I used to hate...scars on my face from old piercings...a tattoo that's ruined and faded from a hospital visit...
But this is me, I'm all natural and my body tells a story.
I've learnt over time to like myself and appreciate who I am and what I look like as a woman.
And I'm damn happy and proud of myself.
EDIT- I would never criticise anyone or look down on someone who dramatically changed something they disliked about themselves. I guess my main issue is people not learning to love the quirks which make them different. Imperfections are what make us who we are, and it's just really sad to see people feel the need to change it when I just wish with empathy that everyone could be a bit happier with themselves (idealistic and naive yes, but I can live in hope!)
Also, a week or so ago I showed my mum my SG photos and she nearly cried she was so proud.
She said she loved how much more comfortable I am with myself now, and I was so pleased that she was proud of me.
Anyway.
In light of celebrating natural beauty, here's some oh-so-hot, confident ladies that are rocking MR right now, and who deserve front page as they're what I love about Suicide Girls.
AnnaLee
Lottey
Plum
Lass
HENIKA
And I will be joining these ladies in MR again on the 21st.
I'm hoping you'll all love the set as much as I do...
On a different note, this is how my weekend looked...
Fische <3
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you're you and that confidence you've built after everything was shit is all that matters. I am constantly telling people to kiss my ass when it comes to their perception of attractiveness. I know what I like about myself and what I don't and I dont pretend to feel ashamed because it's no point. I wasted so much of my adolescence feeling ugly because I wasn't what my ethnic group thought was attractive. Men are so quick to point out the flaws of a woman because they're too busy trying to bury their own.
/rant.
I think you're gorgeous and I can't wait for your set!
x0!