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I've given up on women.

I have concluded that as nice and often sexy as they are, it's nearly impossible to find one who is sane. Those who think they know what they want all have some fantasy in mind (read - need to be in long term therapy). All the normal women don't know what they want.

I fully acknowledge that I'm a risky relationship choice. That my history is full of two month relationships but at least I've liked all the women I've dated and always wanted to stay friends if things didn't work out. And I've mellowed a bit with age. Sex, while still a "good," is not the point in any relationship. It's a necessary part - you've got to find the other person sexy - but the will it last part is determined by how well you mesh over the long term. I've found I'm much better at pegging personalities now, and avoiding women I might have seen when I was younger, even when quite attracted. Just say "no," I say.

With age, comes wisdom and sorrow.

I think they call this a "time out" from dating.