Hello out their in SG land I took a little break and now I am back. I am going for a toss up between jobs which work for AT&T as a cable splicer or become a union electrician. It took me a little while to figure I can not just sit in an office all day I have wicked ADD and it just doesn't work for me. I just got to work with my hands. I still want to go back to school and get a degree in information technology. The wife front is still a little rocky but what do you expect from a couple early 20's trying to figure their lives out. I just want to say I love you guys for the support your the best 
Be good to your woman, and patient. People grow and change all through life and you'll never regret trying to let each other be
My husband keeps trying to set me up as an electrician. They make wicked good money and usually don't work with any live current at all so it's not like I'd fry myself
Good luck with it all and I hope things are better soon with you and the wifey.
xoxo
<3 K