Merry Christmas SGland!!!!!
debased_pixie:
darke:
Let me tell you, I feel no guilt and I do fine. There's a difference between feeling guilt and recognizing your deficiencies. Agonizing over poor decisions just takes time away, and you can use that time more wisely in following through with better decisions. The best way to avoid future guilt is to just not do things that you would feel guilty about. and if there's a temptation to do so, just ask yourself "what else could I be doing right now that would not make me feel like shit later?"