I had some relationship troubles, and talked them over with good friends. That is where good friends become indespensible. They helped me to realize that it's bad when you're already over-stressed and no longer attracted to your partner, that is when it's time to ask yourself whether you even have chemistry or connection to the person in question. So I called the guy up, and I ended it. It was one of the hardest things I've ever done. EVER, especially because he tried to talk me out of it. Having to say no once is hard. Imagine having to repeat it up to 7 times. EXTREMELY difficult. He's a sweet guy. I don't want to hurt his feelings.
Breaking up is hard. HARD.
I learned not to committ myself to someone that I haven't seen in seven years. I knew it was crazy while I was diong it but I thought verbally saying that I was committing didn't mean that all of a sudden nothing could be done to break up the relationship. THAT freaked me out. When someone had only known me, really known me, for one day and was already planning the rest of a life together with me whether I wanted to have one too or not.... That's freaky.
Relationship troubles over.
At least for now. lol
Breaking up is hard. HARD.
I learned not to committ myself to someone that I haven't seen in seven years. I knew it was crazy while I was diong it but I thought verbally saying that I was committing didn't mean that all of a sudden nothing could be done to break up the relationship. THAT freaked me out. When someone had only known me, really known me, for one day and was already planning the rest of a life together with me whether I wanted to have one too or not.... That's freaky.
Relationship troubles over.
At least for now. lol