Look what I found while researching the author Dan Savage for my "Ideas of Difference" class.
I'm a 21-year-old student. I've been dating a guy since January. All summer I've been living in Portland, over a hundred miles from his hometown. A week ago, he admitted that he met a girl at a party. After many a Miller High Life, she told him he had a "nice butt." While this isn't so bad, she later sent him a link to a website where she posts nude pictures of herself. I found them on his computer, and the two live in the same neighborhood. I admit that I feel jealous and I can't stop talking about this. Maybe I'm paranoid, but I'm worried his fantasies will quickly become reality. Am I being stupid?
My Boy Jacks Off to Pics of a Suicide Girl
I don't think there's anything wrong with your boyfriend jacking off while fantasizing about a girl he met at a party, to digital images of a minor alternaporn star, or to mental images of a neighbor. But there is something disturbing about your boyfriend doing all three at once, MBJOTPOASG. More worrisome, your boyfriend shared this information with you. I mean, if his lust for the neighbor was entirely innocent, just something to help him jerk away the time until you return, why on earth would he tell you about her? Either he's trying to make you jealous or he's softening you up for a threesome request. If you don't want to be with a guy who plays head games or a guy you're going to have to share with a Suicide Girl--or both--then you might want to dump this guy.
Linky
I'm a 21-year-old student. I've been dating a guy since January. All summer I've been living in Portland, over a hundred miles from his hometown. A week ago, he admitted that he met a girl at a party. After many a Miller High Life, she told him he had a "nice butt." While this isn't so bad, she later sent him a link to a website where she posts nude pictures of herself. I found them on his computer, and the two live in the same neighborhood. I admit that I feel jealous and I can't stop talking about this. Maybe I'm paranoid, but I'm worried his fantasies will quickly become reality. Am I being stupid?
My Boy Jacks Off to Pics of a Suicide Girl
I don't think there's anything wrong with your boyfriend jacking off while fantasizing about a girl he met at a party, to digital images of a minor alternaporn star, or to mental images of a neighbor. But there is something disturbing about your boyfriend doing all three at once, MBJOTPOASG. More worrisome, your boyfriend shared this information with you. I mean, if his lust for the neighbor was entirely innocent, just something to help him jerk away the time until you return, why on earth would he tell you about her? Either he's trying to make you jealous or he's softening you up for a threesome request. If you don't want to be with a guy who plays head games or a guy you're going to have to share with a Suicide Girl--or both--then you might want to dump this guy.
Linky
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P.S. I used to read Dan Savage's column in The Stranger when I was in high school. He's fuckin' hilarious.
[Edited on Oct 22, 2005 9:00AM]