ferrara

OK at frist I thought it may have just been me that was being anti social in my way of thinking towards the relationship that my room mate and her boyfriend share. They spend every night together at our place and he's basically always here. I dont really like him much he eats all our food, doesn't clean up after himself and I really have nothing in common with the guy so I generally stay out of their way when he's over. But I never said anything because my personality is
more towards the hermit side, I enjoy spending my days alone, and only crawl out of my hole when its necessary... no no that sounded pretty bad I do socialize just the majority of the time I like to spend doing my own thing... so point is I'm not really one to comment on the relationships of others.

So anyway today was my day off and seeing as I was super tired I took a nap this afternoon I heard someone leave the house at around 10am and assumed it was her boyfriend and that my room mate had the day off and was still sleeping, however it ended up that her boyfriend was still in our house at 1pm, I heard him get up and go into our living room and start watching tv, I dont think that they thought I was home becasue the minute I started moving to see if it was him he got up and left; he also had the key to our place because he locked the door when he left.

Point is my room mate didn't tell me she gave him the key or that he was going to be over without her here. What if I wanted to walk around in my panties like I usually do when I get up.

I dont know what to do about this shes a really hard person to confront, very condisending and she's going to make it very very difficult on me when I do. I just dont think its fair that he's allowed to stay over here when shes not here, and that he has the key. I cant believe she didn't tell me this.