Music and video are dope, but irrelevant to the post. Then again, I always post dope music and videos, so what else is new?
So I was hanging out these chicks last night (my neighbors, and my story with them would be another post) , and they asked me what my personality type was (MTBI). I really don't even know how we got there in conversation, but I was curious because I hadn't taken it in like, well, since fourth grade. Last I checked it was INFP, which was more than 10 years ago. Surely my personality type had to have grown and changed since.
The test says that I'm now an ESFJ, though I'm thinking of taking the test a few times again to actually find out if it holds true, for the most part it sums of my personality very well at this point in my life.
Briefly:
Care intensely about people; generously support them
Desire harmony- this is essential to their well-being
Take their work seriously, think that others should also
Traditions are important; as are family events and holidays
Can be comfortable as leaders
Can be seen as intolerant (based on their clear sense of right and wrong)
Under stress: can become excessively emotional, see only the negative
So homegirl asks me to read her's out loud, and as I'm reading her ENTJ profile, I'm thinking, "This is like giving me all the answers to the test." She's sitting there smiling and saying, "That's so me," with her drunk-ass as I'm already making mental notes and lining up what it says to what I already know about her. Then, I think, "Really, so this stand-offish and dismissive bullshit that she normally gives me when she's not drunk is just her test for me, and all I gotta do is stand my ground and not back down if I really want her."
I don't know, 6AM she still drunk, we're outside the apartment smoking. She decides to get on a deep tip and tell me while we're alone, "The test says you like to need approval from people to validate yourself." Which is very true, but I'm working on that daily... "I don't think you should seek that from anyone."