okay - before you rip - i know this is old news.
i know this is partly an issue of "cult of personality" and fame culture
i know this has absolutely 0 to do with me
but i don't really understand how the "/ignore" function works, and mine keeps wearing off. so sometimes i go back to find the reason why i'm ignoring people.
(it's really sad the amount of hard drive space i'm dedicating to SG chat logs)
there are whole groups dedicated to the hatred of n00bs and the post-HBO SG condition. but there needs to be some consideration that some of the bad people are a hair older than that.
[preceding discussion involved the quoting of glassjaw lyrics, and kayla saying she hated them and their style of music, followed by lush saying she is friends with the singer of said band]
[lush] thats my best friends band accually
[k] wow, tell him he sucks for me
[lush]lay off
[lush] the guys gunne be dead in a year
[k] screamo makes me wanna gouge someones eyes out
[lush] for real
[k] well one less bad band then, i guess.
[spm] be nice you two
[lush] thatsa my friend and your saying oh well if he dies
[spm] play nice
[lush] thanks
[k] im allowed to talk shit about bands if i want to
[lush] talk about fucking compassion
[k] last i checked
the calousness of that line about "one less.." is effing mindblowing. i can't understand not backing off at the point where you realize your talking to a friend of the person. i understand saying you hate someone famous, and you want them to die. i get that your actually talking about their product, not them.
but this is not that.
sometimes SG makes me all warm and fuzzy inside. and then there's this. makes me wonder why i don't just go hang out at some jock wrigleyville bar.
:yarf:
sorry about the el stupido depressing and way late journal.. but that one just chewed me up all over again. and i don't want people thinking i'm ignoring their friends for no reason.
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It's not worth going into details, but perhaps she just had an off night (I know I've seen Kayla around, but I've never had to defend myself to her before last night...kinda left a lame taste in my mouth).
I certainly don't hold it against her tho, and would not have thought of it had I not read this too.
Think about this . . . you may not realize it, but
it's 100% true.
1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much
they would die for you.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some
way.
3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is
because they want to be just like you.
4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone,
even if they don't like you.
5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they
go to sleep.
6. You mean the world to someone.
7. If not for you, someone may not be living.
8. Someone that you don't even know exists, loves
you.
9. Always remember the compliments you received.
Forget about the rude remarks.
10. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you
will feel much better when they know.
11. If you have a great friend, take the time to let
them know that they are great.
ok,so this may seem cheesy but after I read this I wanted to kiss Fael for helping me to realize that everyone is different and everyone has their off days. That most anger is because of something someone else is experiencing and you just happen to be there. And most important the littlest thing can become a big thing very quickly. With the internet someone may be saying something and have a sarcastic look on their face, but you have no way of knowing it. The comments that night in chat were all very rude,but I've moved past it. I don't know Kayla, so I don't know her personality and I'm just glad that she & I had a talk about what happened. Let's just all be friends and have a humping party and if you're rude..you probably won't be invited.