I hate when people say it's 'Drama" as an excuse for not facing the real issue. And yes I do care if people like me or not, because I would like to think i'm a good person and easy to get along with. And I don't intensionally hurt people or make them sad or whatever. I am NOT "crazy, pathetic, or maybe just not so intelligent"
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HI EXPO!!!!
EXPO, SOMETIMES WE MAY NOT REALIZE THAT EVERYTHING WE DO AFFECTS NOT ONLY OUR LIVES; BUT TOUCHES OTHER, TOO!!! A LITTLE TOUCH OF THOUGHTFULNESS THAT SHOWS SOMEONE YOU CARE CREATES A BIT OF HAPPINESS FOR BOTH OF YOU TO SHARE; AND EVERY TIME YOU HAVE A KIND WORD TO GIVE, SHOW YOU CARE, AND OFFER A HELPING HAND, YOU HELP SOMEONE FIND BEAUTY IN THIS PRECIOUS LIFE WE LIVE ON THIS EARTH!!! LIFE IS A WONDERFUL JOURNEY!!!
EXPO, THANK YOU FOR BEING IN MY LIFE!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR FRIENDSHIP!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR UNDERSTANDING!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR INTELLECTUAL INTERACTION!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR PASSION FOR LIFE!!! THANK YOU FOR BEING MY EYE CANDY!!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR PARENTS FOR BRINGING YOU INTO THIS LIFE!!! THANK YOU FOR BEING SOOOO SEXY, SEXY, SEXY, SEXY!!!! THANK YOU FOR BEING SOOO CREATIVE AND SHARING YOUR SPECIAL SELF!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR SPECIAL COMMUNICATION!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR LIFE!!! THANK YOU FOR THE SUN YOU BRING INTO MY LIFE!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVE!!!
EXPO, WHAT IS INTELLIGENCE!!?!?!?!!!
MENSA INTERNATIONAL HIGH IQ SOCIETY! "*IN EDUCATION THEY RANGE FROM PRESCHOOLERS TO HIGH SCHOOL DROPOUTS TO PEOPLE WITH MULTIPLE DOCTORATES! MENSA WAS FOUNDED IN ENGLAND!! MENSANS SCORE WITHIN THE UPPER TWO PERCENT OF THE GENERAL POPULATION ON AN APPROVED INTELLIGENCE TEST THAT HAS BEEN PROPERLY SUPERVISED. THERE ARE MENSANS ON WELFARE AND MENSANS WHO ARE MILLIONAIRES! MENSA HAS MEMBERS THAT ARE PROFESSORS, TRUCK DRIVERS, SCIENTISTS, FIREFIGHTERS, COMPUTER PROGRAMMERS, FARMERS, ARTISTS, MILITARY PEOPLE, MUSICIANS, LABORERS, SECRETARIES, AND THE DIVERSE LIST GOES ON AND ON!!! MENSANS ARE IN ONE HUNDRED COUNTRIES; BELGIUM, FRANC, IRELAND, UNITED KINGDOM, UNITED STATES CANADA, ITALY, SPAIN, DENMARK, FINLAND, GERMANY, AUSTRALIA, AND MANY OTHER COUNTRIES!!! MENSA IS A ROUND-TABLE SOCIETY, WHERE RACE, COLOR, CREED, NATIONAL ORIGIN, AGA, POLITICS, EDUCATIONAL OR SOCIAL BACKGROUND ARE IRRELEVANT!!! MENSA TAKES NO STAND ON POLITICS, RELIGION OR SOCIAL ISSUES. MENSA HAS MEMBERS FROM SO MANY DIFFERENT COUNTRIES AND CULTURES WITH DIFFERING POINTS OF VIEWS THAT FOR MENSA TO ESPOUSE A PARTICULAR POINT OF VIEW WOULD GO AGAINST ITS ROLE AS A FORUM FOR ALL POINTS OF VIEW!*"!!! MENSANS LEARN THAT YOU CAN LEARN SOMETHING FROM EVERYONE; AND THAT EVEN SOMEONE WHO HAS NOT HAD THE OPPORTUNITY OF A FORMAL EDUCATION CONTRIBUTES TO THE WORLD OF INTELLECTUAL THOUGHT; AND THEIR WORDS ARE NOT "*DRAMA!*"!!!
AS A ZEN TEACHER ONCE SAID, "*WHAT YOU DO IS WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU!*"!!! THE WORD "*KARMA!*" MEANS "*VOLITIONAL ACT!*" OR "*DEED!*"!!! THE LAW OF KARMA IS A LAW OF CAUSE AND EFFECT, OR AN UNDERSTANDING THAT EVERY DEED PRODUCES FRUIT!!! KARMA IS CREATED BY THE INTENTIONAL ACTS OF PHYSICAL ACTIONS, THOUGHTS AND WORDS!!! JUST AS ACTION CAUSES REACTION, KARMA CAUSES EFFECTS THAT COME BACK TO THE ORIGINAL ACTOR!!! KARMA ALSO TENDS TO GENERATE MORE KARMA THAT REACHES OUT IN ALL DIRECTIONS!!! DO NOT BE TRAPPED BY DOGMA, WHICH IS LIVING WITH THE RESULTS OF OTHER PEOPLE'S THINKING; "*DO NOT LET THE NOISE OF OTHER'S OPINIONS DROWN OUT YOUR OWN INNER VOICE!*"!!! EXPO, YOU CREATE BEAUTIFUL VOLITIONAL ACT!!! EXPO, YOUR INTENTIONAL ACTS OF PHYSICAL ACTIONS, THOUGHTS AND WORDS GENERATE MORE BEAUTIFUL KARMA THAT REACHES OUT IN ALL DIRECTIONS!!!
SOME ZEN WISDOM: IF YOU ARE NOT WANTING TO "*KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!*" WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WRONG FOR YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP AND YET YOU FEEL AFRAID TO TELL HIM THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT AND DO NOT WANT; YOU ARE SO NOT ALONE!!! BEFORE YOU SPEAK YOU FEEL THAT THRILL OF FEAR GO THROUGH YOU; THE "*GOOD GIRL!*" PART OF YOU THAT HAS ALWAYS TOLD MOST WOMEN TO "*PLAY GAMES!*," "*KEEP THINGS TO YOURSELF!*," "*BE SEEN AND NOT HEARD!*"!!! THE PART OF ALL WOMEN THAT THINKS THEY CAN LOSE A MAN BY BEING YOURSELF AND TELLING HIM THE STRAIGHT-FORWARD TRUTH!!! "*NOT TELLING HIM THOSE THINGS!*" IS ALL WRONG!!! THE SECRET IS TO NOT HOLD BACK!!! IF I MADE "TELLING THE TRUTH TO A MAN!*" A GAME FOR YOU, WHERE YOU COULD NOT VENT, OR YELL, OR COMPLAIN, OR MAKE HIM WRONG, OR EVEN SAY THE WORD "*YOU!*" TO HIM; HOW WOULD YOU SAY IT!!?!?!?!!! IN THE MOST TRUTHFUL, FULLY EXPRESSED WAY POSSIBLE!!?!?!?!!! MAKE IT ONLY FROM YOU, SHARING YOUR FEELING STATE AND NOT LINKING IT AT ALL TO WHAT HAS HAPPENED OR WHAT HE HAS DONE OR NOT DONE, OR WHO HE SEEMS TO BE OR NOT BE!!!
WHAT SOME MEN MAY SAY IS SO MUCH "*DRAMA!*;" :*CRAZY!*;" OR "*PATHETIC!*"!!! I WANT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY BOYFRIEND TO "*GO!*" SOMEWHERE, AND IT IS STALLED AND I HATE IT!!! HERE ARE SOME OF THE THINGS I WOULD LIKE TO TELL HIM: "*YOU NEVER MAKE PLANS ANYMORE, IT IS ALWAYS ME MAKING PLANS FOR THE TWO OF US! IF I DO NOT MAKE THE PLANS, NOTHING HAPPENS, WE JUST SIT AND WATCH TV!! I NEED FOR YOU TO MOVE THIS RELATIONSHIP FORWARD, AND I WANT TO IMPROVE OUR CONNECTION BY DOING MORE THINGS TOGETHER!*"!!! "*DRAMA!!?!?!?!!!
WHAT IF YOU SAID THE SAME THING THIS WAY: "*I FEEL BAD AND UNCOMFORTABLE WITHOUT PLANS FOR THE TWO OF US ANYMORE. I MISS THAT. I FEEL SO ALONE AND LONELY AND LIKE I AM SINGLE AND LEADING A LIFE SO SEPARATE FROM YOU. I MISS YOU. I MISS FEELING CLOSE TO YOU. I DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU RIGHT NOW THAT FEELS LIKE JUST DATING. I FEEL WEIRD, LIKE WE HAVE NO PLANS TOGETHER. I FEEL DISCONNECTED. I MISS DOING THINGS TOGETHER." THE SECRET TO INTIMACY IS IN YOUR WORDS, AND NOT HOLDING BACK!!!*"
EXPO, I WISH YOU AND YOUR LOVE SET SOME NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS THAT ARE GUARANTEED TO IMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION, ENHANCE ROMANCE, INCREASE INTIMACY AND EXPAND YOU SEXUAL HORIZONS, SO YOUR RELATIONSHIP GETS BETTER AND YOU GROW TOGETHER NOT APART!!! LISTEN TO EACH OTHER, BE EMOTIONALLY SUPPORTIVE, SHARE YOUR FEELINGS, BE TENDER, COMPASSIONATE, SUPPORTIVE AND UNSELFISH TO MAKE YOU BOTH FEEL "*LOVED!*"!!! ASK EACH OTHER HOW THE OTHER CAN BE A BETTER LOVER, GIVE EACH OTHER COMPLIMENTS EVERY DAY, LISTEN MORE, ARGUE LESS, VERBALIZE APPRECIATION MORE!!! SPEND QUALITY TIME TOGETHER BY DOING THINGS YOU BOTH ENJOY!!! CHANGE SOMETHING ABOUT YOURSELF TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP EVEN BETTER!!! FOR EXAMPLE, TAKE MORE PHOTOS OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL, SEXY, SEXY, SEXY, SEXY BODY, AND HAVE YOUR PARTNER GIVE YOU SENSUAL MASSAGES!!!!
LET LOVE IN WITH A FRESH NEW YEAR;S START, AND WRITE YOURSELF A FORGIVENESS LETTER TO YOURSELF FOR ALLOWING SOMEONE HURT YOU!!! LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST BY DOING THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY; WHETHER IT IS EATING ICE CREAM, WATCHING YOUR FAVORITE MOVIES, OR BEING PAMPERED AND CUDDLING WITH YOUR PARTNER, OR SHARING YOURSELF WITH YOUR FRIENDS IN THE SUICIDEGIRLS' COMMUNITY!!!! THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL!!!!