Sooo....
The dating update....
Going really well! phew! was an interesting start to dating this girl, lets just call her "Trouble" and in the nicest possible way, as I know she doesn't like "Red"
There were lots of questions, about her and me and past and kids and the likes, seems like a lot of ground to cover before a first date but conversation flowed really easily. We both have kids, and exs, and I don't think that kids complicate a relationship, it just means that you need to plan your time better, we're lucky we both have boys and they are really close in age. We both are similar in the sense that we felt stung from having given our all previously and got burned in the process.
But we click, and its the nicest possible feeling, and a click on every level, better than ever before. There will no doubt be "Trouble" inspired stories in the filthy smutty group soon!
First date was people watching at a casino, strange for sure as neither of us gamble but it gave us the chance to walk about and hold hands in relative comfort during the storm that blew in (not a fun drive afterwards for me) We had coffee and dinner and had an awesome teenager like make out session in the car. This was all a week and a half ago, we have been out a couple of times since, we organised a play date for the boys which I was most nervous about, but they are young and built Lego and played cops and robbers. Some may wonder why we let the kids meet so soon, well we feel a real connection, and our kids are part of us, we aren't looking for surrogate parents for them but it was important to see how everyone got along, I guess if you have kids you'll get it if not you may one day. My son meets my friends all the time, and to no ill effects.
Other than that I have very little news and have taken barely any photos, but I'll leave you with a picture of a burger I had, it was cheat day and I was craving a good burger!
Oh and lass is front page! Holy F favourite SG ever - I like to see the positive in everything and I can't help but think that's a good "sign"!
The dating update....
Going really well! phew! was an interesting start to dating this girl, lets just call her "Trouble" and in the nicest possible way, as I know she doesn't like "Red"
There were lots of questions, about her and me and past and kids and the likes, seems like a lot of ground to cover before a first date but conversation flowed really easily. We both have kids, and exs, and I don't think that kids complicate a relationship, it just means that you need to plan your time better, we're lucky we both have boys and they are really close in age. We both are similar in the sense that we felt stung from having given our all previously and got burned in the process.
But we click, and its the nicest possible feeling, and a click on every level, better than ever before. There will no doubt be "Trouble" inspired stories in the filthy smutty group soon!
First date was people watching at a casino, strange for sure as neither of us gamble but it gave us the chance to walk about and hold hands in relative comfort during the storm that blew in (not a fun drive afterwards for me) We had coffee and dinner and had an awesome teenager like make out session in the car. This was all a week and a half ago, we have been out a couple of times since, we organised a play date for the boys which I was most nervous about, but they are young and built Lego and played cops and robbers. Some may wonder why we let the kids meet so soon, well we feel a real connection, and our kids are part of us, we aren't looking for surrogate parents for them but it was important to see how everyone got along, I guess if you have kids you'll get it if not you may one day. My son meets my friends all the time, and to no ill effects.
Other than that I have very little news and have taken barely any photos, but I'll leave you with a picture of a burger I had, it was cheat day and I was craving a good burger!
Oh and lass is front page! Holy F favourite SG ever - I like to see the positive in everything and I can't help but think that's a good "sign"!
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I'll no doubt have more updates and hopefully it wont get too gushy, I'm kinda getting into the whole "things happen for a reason" vibe - that would make an interesting post actually about something that happened in January
Thanks Hodor
Things are going really well, lots of fun and teenage naughtiness! The kids are kinda of a deal breaker, my ex had some issues revolving around my kid and it just wasn't healthy.