I've decided that my definition of homosexual or bisexual is someone capable of maintaining an emotional and sexual relationship with someone of the same sex, and feel *right* and *complete* with it. Anyone can fuck anyone if they're willing to deal with the discomfort of it. That's why I get pissed off when people call someone bi just because they're open to the idea of muff dives. It's a lot more than that.
And as for me? I don't know yet. I sometimes call myself bi because it's a lot easier to get through to people that way than it is to say "I have a girlfriend, but don't get me wrong, I'm straight." And it does feel different being with a girl. It feels very different. At this point, I don't feel right, and I don't feel complete. But then again, I didn't feel right or complete for the first 3 months with my first boyfriend either; that's why I'm giving it a chance. I love Liz to death, but if it turns out she's just my best friend and nothing more, well then at least we know. If not, then hopefully I will have this gorgeous, amazing woman at my side for a long time to come.
And then you can call me bi.
And as for me? I don't know yet. I sometimes call myself bi because it's a lot easier to get through to people that way than it is to say "I have a girlfriend, but don't get me wrong, I'm straight." And it does feel different being with a girl. It feels very different. At this point, I don't feel right, and I don't feel complete. But then again, I didn't feel right or complete for the first 3 months with my first boyfriend either; that's why I'm giving it a chance. I love Liz to death, but if it turns out she's just my best friend and nothing more, well then at least we know. If not, then hopefully I will have this gorgeous, amazing woman at my side for a long time to come.
And then you can call me bi.
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It's a perfect definition of an often confusing state.
Props for you.