I see your point, it seems at odds with itself. I guess women are cooler about stuff like that than guys. Each to his own, I like to say. But once in I think the Austin Chronicle I saw a personal ad where a gay man said his fantasy was to um, give oral sex to a straight man. And, I thought, it seems flawed. If the other guy was straight, then he probably would not want to participate. If he was not straight, it kind of "blows" the other guys fantasy. Doncha think? There was another one in that same mag I found amusing. It was from a woman who said she was looking for a good looking guy to be her doormat. He had to be able to speak in complete sentences, and thinking for himself was not an option. Lastly, she said, resemblence to John Holmes a plus.
I'll e-mail you my flight schedule soon.
I'M COMING SOOOOOON!