Okay, so the majority vote was I should cut the bitch...
Well metaphorically speaking, this may just happen.
Because he IMed me last night in need of advice about their relationship, and I told him in all honesty that I would be careful if I was him.
for example.....
Theyve been going out for a week now. Day 2 he told her he loved her.
She has already admitted that she has cheated in several former relationships. (BIG WARNING SIGN!!)
And she said that she did it because her former boyfriends cheated on her.
I told him that if her former boyfriends cheated on her, then shes going to have trust issues (he admited she did) and the fact that three of his closest friends are girls is not going to make things easier.
But in the ever famous words of I dont know who "bro's before hoe's". Your friends should ALWAYS come first, because theyre not going to break up with you because you wont dump her, but can't always say the same for her (see 'Saving Silverman').
What else did he confide in me with about her.... she's high matinence, and oh thats right, her and the mutual friend who set them up (who I also dont fully trust because he seems like one of those, we're friends as long as its convenient for me, kinda guys) made a 'list of improvements' for him.
Needless to say he was none-too-pleased.
I said "If you're not happy about that, thats not a good thing. Shes basically telling you that she doesnt care that you're not happy about it, shes right and she should be obayed."
Although I also told him that the 'list of improvements' may not be as bad as one would think. I mean if you walk around town wearing shirts with spagetti-o stains on them and think there is nothing wrong, then obviously, suggesting that this is not a good thing would be best. (Or telling him that he needs to introduce color into his wardrobe when all he ever wears is black EVER!!
)
But telling him that he needs to change his personal style that declares who he is as a person, just because it doesnt fit your standard of how you want people to percieve him as your boyfriend. Thats bullshit. Thats the same crap our parents pull when theyre embarassed that we look more like punks than Miss Susie Highschool that lives down the street.
Ooops... look at that, I was standing on a soapbox.... now where on earth did that come from, and how the fuck did it get under my feet....
I hate it when that happens.... Sorry y'all.
So, anyhow, yeah, he apologized very sincerely for completely ditching me, and asked how he could make it up to me. Told me that I was an amazing friend and he was so happy to have met me, and thanked me for all the help and advice and support I had given him.
Hahaha!!! He is still mine, oh yes he is still mine.
No bitch is going to steal my friends. Or Jack ass for that matter, but Ive never had a problem with that really, because all my girlfriends are smart enough than to let a guy get between their friendships. ::nod::
Well metaphorically speaking, this may just happen.
Because he IMed me last night in need of advice about their relationship, and I told him in all honesty that I would be careful if I was him.
for example.....
Theyve been going out for a week now. Day 2 he told her he loved her.
She has already admitted that she has cheated in several former relationships. (BIG WARNING SIGN!!)
And she said that she did it because her former boyfriends cheated on her.
I told him that if her former boyfriends cheated on her, then shes going to have trust issues (he admited she did) and the fact that three of his closest friends are girls is not going to make things easier.
But in the ever famous words of I dont know who "bro's before hoe's". Your friends should ALWAYS come first, because theyre not going to break up with you because you wont dump her, but can't always say the same for her (see 'Saving Silverman').
What else did he confide in me with about her.... she's high matinence, and oh thats right, her and the mutual friend who set them up (who I also dont fully trust because he seems like one of those, we're friends as long as its convenient for me, kinda guys) made a 'list of improvements' for him.
Needless to say he was none-too-pleased.
I said "If you're not happy about that, thats not a good thing. Shes basically telling you that she doesnt care that you're not happy about it, shes right and she should be obayed."
Although I also told him that the 'list of improvements' may not be as bad as one would think. I mean if you walk around town wearing shirts with spagetti-o stains on them and think there is nothing wrong, then obviously, suggesting that this is not a good thing would be best. (Or telling him that he needs to introduce color into his wardrobe when all he ever wears is black EVER!!
)
But telling him that he needs to change his personal style that declares who he is as a person, just because it doesnt fit your standard of how you want people to percieve him as your boyfriend. Thats bullshit. Thats the same crap our parents pull when theyre embarassed that we look more like punks than Miss Susie Highschool that lives down the street.
Ooops... look at that, I was standing on a soapbox.... now where on earth did that come from, and how the fuck did it get under my feet....
I hate it when that happens.... Sorry y'all.
So, anyhow, yeah, he apologized very sincerely for completely ditching me, and asked how he could make it up to me. Told me that I was an amazing friend and he was so happy to have met me, and thanked me for all the help and advice and support I had given him.
Hahaha!!! He is still mine, oh yes he is still mine.
No bitch is going to steal my friends. Or Jack ass for that matter, but Ive never had a problem with that really, because all my girlfriends are smart enough than to let a guy get between their friendships. ::nod::