After someone leaves you I believe that the question that should be asked is whethere you miss them or if you can't acknowledge the fact that their might be someone better than you. It's an interesting paradox; the human mind, the yearning to be accepted, yet be different at the same time. It's the middle ground that we strive for, but it so difficult for human beings to stray to that coveted grey area and we envy and sometimes loathe the people that actually make it to the " promised land".
Life may be the opportunities given to one and it may also be the opportunities that we miss. We miss them because we are not perfect, but as a species that is obsessed with perfection aesthetically speaking and spirtiually speaking our ego is easily bruised because no matter how much time and effort we put into a set subject we will never be perfect. Is perfection objective or subjective. It's both and that is what makes the world unique because empirically speaking if one makes 10 out of 10 free throws he/she is perfect from the free throw line. They are unblemished, pure, perfect. However, subjectively speaking maybe someone that you love is perfect for you and how do we measure a spouse/mate as perfect. We define it through the matters of needs, wants, and voids.
As I explained earlier we are imperfect and we strive for perfection subconsciously. When we meet a potential mate we evaluate them through means that we are missing. If one is bored it is no coincidence that the person that you seek is one that is adventurous. It is filling a void with a need and a want. As sporadic and spontaneous youth. We want to be something one day and something another. These something and others may demand different needs, wants, and create voids that may have not been there previously. My generalized statement that human beings seek perfection may have an opposing view and this is true, but the slacker is one that fears perfection and maybe this person may be the smart one because he knows that he can neve obtain perfection, so he does not even try. He/she would still love perfection, but maybe the downright narcissism and ego will not allow him to progress in the stages of what we call perfection.
I believe in a one because twos, and threes create conflict, negative chaos, and hatred. The basic premise of our existence is sex. Next time you have sex with someone don't see it as fucking view it from the standpoint that you are one with that person. For that hour or however long you decide to fornicate you are no longer John or Jane you are 1. As human beings instead of fixating on materialism let's strive for a concept of unity with one another. A good man feeds himself, a compassionate and true men can feel the fullness in his stomach after feeding others without touching a grain. Perfection is nothing but an ideal and it should be respected and strived for. I guess I am writing this note because I am not perfect and I never will be perfect, but what hurts me more than that is the fact that someone else's potential happiness almost made me vomit. That is the horrid human being I have become
Life may be the opportunities given to one and it may also be the opportunities that we miss. We miss them because we are not perfect, but as a species that is obsessed with perfection aesthetically speaking and spirtiually speaking our ego is easily bruised because no matter how much time and effort we put into a set subject we will never be perfect. Is perfection objective or subjective. It's both and that is what makes the world unique because empirically speaking if one makes 10 out of 10 free throws he/she is perfect from the free throw line. They are unblemished, pure, perfect. However, subjectively speaking maybe someone that you love is perfect for you and how do we measure a spouse/mate as perfect. We define it through the matters of needs, wants, and voids.
As I explained earlier we are imperfect and we strive for perfection subconsciously. When we meet a potential mate we evaluate them through means that we are missing. If one is bored it is no coincidence that the person that you seek is one that is adventurous. It is filling a void with a need and a want. As sporadic and spontaneous youth. We want to be something one day and something another. These something and others may demand different needs, wants, and create voids that may have not been there previously. My generalized statement that human beings seek perfection may have an opposing view and this is true, but the slacker is one that fears perfection and maybe this person may be the smart one because he knows that he can neve obtain perfection, so he does not even try. He/she would still love perfection, but maybe the downright narcissism and ego will not allow him to progress in the stages of what we call perfection.
I believe in a one because twos, and threes create conflict, negative chaos, and hatred. The basic premise of our existence is sex. Next time you have sex with someone don't see it as fucking view it from the standpoint that you are one with that person. For that hour or however long you decide to fornicate you are no longer John or Jane you are 1. As human beings instead of fixating on materialism let's strive for a concept of unity with one another. A good man feeds himself, a compassionate and true men can feel the fullness in his stomach after feeding others without touching a grain. Perfection is nothing but an ideal and it should be respected and strived for. I guess I am writing this note because I am not perfect and I never will be perfect, but what hurts me more than that is the fact that someone else's potential happiness almost made me vomit. That is the horrid human being I have become