so i just had another humbling moment... i got on the el at western (blue line) and low and behold the ex was sitting right there in front of me. (i knew it would happen eventually, i just thought [in my fantasy world] that it would happen when i was ready for it) needless to say it was a horrible 5 stops. time to go out with my roommate and take hold of my vice. talk to you all when i'm good and forgetful. 
Drown your sorrow, let the friendly clear liquor help you forget.