So, I was listening to a podcast the other day and the creator of this Bonding survey was the guest. It piqued my interest so I took the short quiz. If you're curious... you should take it too!
Here are my results!
Your test results show that you would likely feel:
Challenged with a form of One-to-One bonding.
You are most likely to be challenged by one-to-one bonding if you are an adventurous person who enjoys novelty, and is always interested in what else might be out there just beyond the horizon. As a freedom-lover, you could find the constrictions of one-to-one bonding suffocating and boring, and you might not even be interested in romantic or sexual relationships at all. Or maybe you love people deeply and want to hang out with them, but the one-to-one emphasis on exclusivity is a challenge for you. Instead, consider checking out relationship anarchy, solo-polyamorous relationships, and being single. If you are already in a one-to-one bond, then you might consider the most flexible kinds of one-to-one bonding like a hall-pass, monogamish relationship, or swinging.
Comfortable with a form of One-to-Many bonding.
If you are comfortable with one-to-many bonding, then you enjoy variety in your social and sexual life. You delight in novelty and like the idea of various relationships meeting different needs, or getting to be a unique version of yourself with new partners. Engaging with people in your environment is appealing to you, and including the potential for sex or romance in those interactions adds a bit of zing.
Comfortable with a form of Many-to-Many bonding.
If you are comfortable with many-to-many bonding then you hunger for close-knit community. You desire connections with a network of people who all share and rely on each other for their emotional, material, sexual, and companionship needs. A collectivist at heart, you thrive with a variety of interactions and collaborations across your day. You are at your best when you can share tasks, resources, love, and fun.
Curious with a form of Solo bonding.
If you are one-to-one bonder with a lot of independence, then you might be curious about solo-bonding if you want a lot of freedom. Similarly, if you are a many-to-many bonder who has not yet found the right mix of people to form a group bond then you might be attracted to the flexibility of solo-bonding. As a one-to-many bonder you might find solo-bonding attractive if you like a lot of time to yourself.
What did you get?