@missy @rambo
Geez, I hope I don't lose my guy card for this... ;)
Ladies, let me tell you (this comes from me, as we ALL know... not all guys are created equal. Mileage MAY vary)… There are a few keys I can give you to the male psyche. Be warned, however, the locks to these are generally hidden behind bramble bushes of anger and dominance and protected by stone guardians that don't know they exist.
1) We CARE what you think about us.
So many guys try to play the macho man bullshit. And he can cover it up well... but we want you to be into us. We WANT you to be proud of us (if we're dating you). And we want YOU to cherish being with us as much as you want us to cherish you.
2) We TRULY do care about penis size. Not necessarily that WE'RE bigger than everyone else... but that we can please you more than anyone you've ever been with. Not many will admit how much they care... many will play it off. But IT is a truly big deal.
3) Find that ONE thing... the one thing you can have with every guy friend or relationship. Having that one thing is the most "weaknessy" thing we have. If you can find the one bond with us that we hold special (no it really shouldn't be sex) you will ALWAYS be important to us.
Ok enough secrets. I don't know how many are actual secrets... I don't hold secrets. But I think the world would be a better place if us guys could get in touch and empower our feminine sides.
Good luck gals!